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Long distance relationships
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Long distance relationships So, I'm currently seeing a man who lives on the north side of Brisbane, so if traffic is good, he's just over an hour away. We talk a few times a day and see each other probably every second day. But tomorrow night, he's flying to Taipei for 16 days. And there's a complicated reason for this which I'm not keen to share at the moment and I'm feeling pretty insecure about the whole situation. When he comes back, things might have changed. What if he doesn't feel the same about me when he gets back ? How do I keep his interest while he's away. He asked me to go, so it's not like he did it behind my back, but I don't have a passport. He wants to FaceTime and text etc, but I'm scared things are going to change. How do I make him miss me without coming across as needy? |
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It will work out the best. Just be sure not let him feel this attitude. Don't make him miss me. You can't control his feelings and play a game. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder.  Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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Because he's going there to see his new baby that was born a week ago. She left him and has been there for a few months and he wasn't going to go, but he wants to find out for sure if it's his baby. My fear is that even though he's saying it's over because they have been apart for 4 months and he's saying he doesn't want her back, he may decide to bring them back. He says he doesn't want to, and she and the baby need documents etc to come here, but my fear is that he's going to feel pressured into doing it. He said if she does come back, she won't stay more than 6 months before she goes back to Taipei. But what happens with him and I ? She would be living with him and I'm what? Trust is very difficult for me, he keeps saying he doesn't care. But what if he does ? And I'm left with nothing again
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Yeah, I think I just need to take this time to decide if I really want to be with him or not. If he comes back and says she is coming back, I'm not going to drag it out. It will be over. They got married the day before she went to Taipei. She's his wife, if he says he wants her here, he will make sure she comes back
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I just spent an hour and a half talking to him. He says he knows I'm worried, but I have to live in the now, not the future because neither of us know what's going to happen
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I know, I know, I know. I let him go knowing that I care about him and that I support him. I didn't lay any guilt on him. He rang me 5 times before he got on the plane, saying he didn't want to get on, telling me he loved me more than I love him. He married her to please her family. She left the next day for Taipei and they hadn't seen each other since. But, she's up and down in what she wants with him. One minute she hates him and doesn't want him, then she's been sending him messages saying she wants to be together and she doesn't want to lose him. So even though I know this and it's killing me inside, I'm going to be calm and not let it get to me. He's made plans for us for valentines day which makes me feel better. He's thinking ahead to being back here with me. He told me to live in the moment and enjoy what we have because he's sharing everything with me, he's telling me everything he knows. He keeps telling me I'm the one he wants, I just don't want to get hurt. I think if I can stop imagining the worst, I'll be able to get through the next 16 days. Seeing his face and hearing his voice will help, hurry up days, pass quickly
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