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Sexuality isn't taboo anymore...
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Sexuality isn't taboo anymore... Back in the 70's as I was growing up I can remember what was called a sexual revolution. I was young and didn't really understand what it was until I was much older. People expressing their sexuality freely. There were swingers parties and a lot of things were considered to be taboo. Being that most of the things being done back were taboo, no one really talked about it. Sometimes you would hear stories and perhaps make some people start to wonder if it is something they would like and what would society say if they knew. Today, things are once again changing. When I lived in NY I experienced some things that of course were taboo 40 years ago. I met several people off of this site and became friends. They introduced me to the new swingers parties, orgies, voyeurism, and to have sex whenever and where ever I wanted. Of course there were many other things that I experienced during the 10 years I lived there. Most of which if I remotely mentioned some of the things we did, I would probably be ask to leave the state of NC. Toys were also of big interest there. Could you imagine what some of the older country born and breed women would think if they saw you having sex out in public. She would probably beat you with her cane and then call the police. I think that people should be able to express themselves in what ever it is that they are doing. Being uninhibited is one of the most freeing things you can ever experience. I have noticed that so many people set up profiles on this and other adult sites so they can wear a mask to be uninhibited. Not that it's a bad thing so please don't get me wrong. Most people are missing something in their lives that they are too inhibited to open up and try so they log on here and go to a chat room or open the web cam and let the world see them enjoy pleasuring themselves.. Sometimes they never show their face, just a body and what they are doing. The people who are very open minded and uninhibited are the ones that actually meet other members and not just sit night after night in a chat room talking about what they would like to be doing. The "real" people are the ones who are experiencing what their mind and body desires. Regardless if you prefer to never leave your house, give out your phone number or meet up with someone that strikes your fancy or if you are out every night with someone different. It is all acceptable today. We all need to do what we feel is safe and definitely what you are comfortable with. It's ok to take things slower and make sure that you are comfortable with the person you are meeting and where you are meeting them. A safe word is always a good thing. Sexuality is a wonderful thing if we act responsible about it. Nothing is really taboo anymore. Everyone can express what they like and not be afraid to say they are bi or prefer their own sex.. have always wished they could try something with the same sex. It is all a learning experience and if we don't take the chances to learn we will never know if it is something we like or not. I have had some really good experiences with meeting people and have made some life long friends, but there are the bad experiences that can land you in the ER of the local hospital wondering what the hell you were doing meeting someone for sex. It happens all to frequently, but is never talked about. I have bad experiences that are still with me in the back of my mind when I start talking to someone. In a chat room you can be anyone you want to behind the keyboard. They aren't always who they say they are when you meet them. Until then, Sad Darkness |
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well written, but since we are different some will say wow and others will mumble and some will say what in the hell is she talking about needless to mention that lots are gonna say things opposite to what they really believe in why? because we are behind screens and yes none can't really know about the other till they meet in person.
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1 post 11/24/2011 5:28 am |
Thank You! So very true. It is so easy to be anyone you want to when you are behind a screen and keyboard. It allows people to do things they never would do otherwise. I used to work with an internet company where I monitored chat rooms looking for adults who would prey on young children who had gotten into the chat rooms by lying about their ages. During my years of doing this I learned a lot about people from just sitting and watching. Everyone is here because something is missing in their lives whether they will admit it or not. How many of the same people will you find in the chat rooms every night.. preforming on the live cams.. I glance through them at night sometimes and notice so many are always there. I guess they would rather preform in front of a live cam as opposed to really meeting someone. For most it's just a game and always will be. As you said, when people are called out on something -- they will either admit it's true or deny the hell out of it because they know they are guilty and don't want to have to face the truth. Until then, Sad Darkness
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I enjoyed your insight. Although it is very true, I have found that most people on sites such as this are not here to truly meet in person, not to say some want. I have meet a lot of good, a few bad and yes a very small number that are down right nuts. I think we are all missing things in our lives in one way or another, and I feel that those change as we change. It is nice to read post like yours and I do hope you will take a look at mine sometime.
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Great artical, and insight. I am often on cam and looking to meet but due to the importance of being discreet I can be open with cam or pics.
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4/10/2012 10:05 pm |
great artice at all.
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4/17/2012 10:52 am |
Yes you are right must all be careful these days, you sound like a smart lady. I know you are already good looking if these are your photos. Just want to say hi and I would he happy to chat sometime. have a great spring. 
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hello
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So well said - I think most are living repressed lives, conditioned by society to deny what is natural for many. Some are born monogamous, some are not - nothing wrong with either one. I am one who believes we should enjoy what we are given while we are here, and share with others. Sadly, there are those who abuse the privilege, but for those who are respectful and honest with themselves and others, wonderful friendships and other things are possible - and you will never truly understand until you open up and let yourself try.
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