We're a reasonably attractive middle-aged couple who've only just recently started trying a three way lifestyle. And it's only been a couple of tries, but both our fires have been lit. We have yet to make things happen with another woman, but this is high on the list, for both of us. For real. Just looking for slow, fun, and sensual, no pressure.

Though my wife's figure has been challenged a bit by bearing several beautiful children into this world, she has classic Ingrid Bergman-like facial features, and still has some lovely curves in all the right places. If I do say so myself, she's actually quite stunning and only getting better with age, particularly with the graying accents in her hair. So, I guess I'm the "reasonably attractive" one in this equation (or so I'm told).

We're looking for a new friend or friends with whom we might share some intensely personal moments and ideas.

My Ideal Person: We're looking for a creative, open-minded woman or man as long as he's caring, giving, and not pushy, respectful. We're entertaining the idea of another couple, too. Our first experience with another man was Great. And he's still in the mix. We're just expanding our boundaries fairly quickly. And it's totally got us in this insatiable mode. Amazing. We just need you to stand-by and let us go slowly. Once committed, we won't have any problems whatsoever carrying on, we'll just need a little time to become comfortable with your presence. The signals will become clear. Perhaps join us in our hotel room, sit down relax, feel free to masterbate, then she may begin sending signals.

You should be intelligent and patient, with your own unique and deeply-developed set of erotic sensibilities. And, lastly, we'd like you to be reasonably attractive. Now before you read too much into that statement, please understand that we don't consider ourselves to be terribly shallow and we certainly have a Very wide angle of acceptance, but as far as our performance is concerned, pleasant looks won't hurt the atmosphere one little bit. I must stress, your personality will go a Long Way towards influencing our opinion of your looks, hence the use of the word "pleasant." Once again, I can assure you, our definition of what makes a person attractive is wide, varied, and extremely dynamic. Besides, we're hardly perfect!

Send a message, tell us a little about yourself (photos of genitalia not absolutely necessary, though other nice images would be very helpful), and please explain why this idea intrigues you. What are your needs or expectations, at least in the beginning of our relationship? None of us has a crystal ball and who knows what will develop on down the line. We also realize that this could become a very charged atmosphere and we'd really appreciate as much sincerity as you can muster on this score in particular. Your true thoughts may not necessarily serve as a deal-breaker, but if everyone really tries to honestly put themselves out there from the get-go, hopefully we can reduce or eliminate as much of the second-guessing as is humanly possible, right? No strings or drama, just an honest and open exchange of ideas and mutually acceptable boundaries. After all, when everything is said and done, this should be Fun!

Thanks for your extremely long attention span, and anticipated thoughtful response. We'll do our best to respond in-kind if you really make a good faith effort to write us with your true thoughts and feelings in mind. Much appreciated!