Most of my friends would say I have a easy-going personality. I am not into the bar scene too much. All though I am a little social butterfly, I not only need, but I demand my alone time. Trust and communication is the biggest factors for me.I even place them higher on my list than sex. And the communication goes into my bedroom as well. I like my partners to feel free to tell me what they like done in the bedroom, and be open to what i like as well. I love sex, but I like feeling the closeness between two people more than the sex act itself. I prefer one-on-one sex, but when I know that someone else maybe watching,it seems to excite me more. In the bedroom, I tend to like traditional, straight forward, some kinky, some experimental sex.I will also try something new before i flat say yes or no. What I do not like is sex to be taken for granted. That's why I like it in different places,different ways,and like to dedicate at least on day a month to get a motel and do whatever without interruption's. Just spending the whole day and nite pleasing each other.

My Ideal Person: As I mentioned above,trust and own space is really important to me. I need someone who can except the fact that I may want to spend time with a friend,or family member, or just being by myself, without giving me grief about it because I am not inviting them. And the same goes for the man if he wants to do something without me,that it is ok. Thats where the trust part plays its role.I need a man to remember what foreplay is.It seems to be so underrated.This is more for us women than you men.Men need to remember that it takes a little more effort to get our motors started and put us in the mood, where men are always in the mood. I need sensuality - like touching and candles and massage, message espically.This might be my biggest weakness and put me right where you want me to be. I had surgery on my spine a couple of years ago and I will melt like butter when someone gives me a back message.I want my partner to be experienced. Introducing new things to someone is really cool, but having to train them isn't. And as far as the person himself. I want my partner to know who he is and not be afraid to express themselfs totally to me.Unless it is abusive and angery. Someone who isn't affraid of a little commitment. I am not talking about marriage either. Just not to feel hopeless and get all scared if they discover that they like being with me more than once a week. I really need someone that isn't into themselves totally. I need someone to love me as much as I love them. This has been an issue for me in my past relationships and is something that i am no longer willing to let slide. I know that relationships are suppose to be 50/50 and sometimes they can be 75/25 but mine have been mostly 100/0 and not in my favor. I need a man to know that it is ok if they cry.It will help me, I cry all the time for everything.I need a man to be comfortable with being by themselves.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
cher eagles pat bentar journey heart

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
i dont have any i make every time my fantasies

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
nope

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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