I am a very positive person who likes to have fun and laugh, in and out of the bedroom. I am not actively searching for a committed relationship at this time, but I am definitely a relationship minded person. I believe in friendship first and like to feel that no matter where the connection leads, that the friendship will survive. I like to e-mail and chat and meet and get to know a person before jumping into bed though. Not for any moralistic horse-shit reasons, but simply because I think the sex is better when you've connected mentally and emotionally beforehand.

Sexually, I have a few interesting kinks. I enjoy role play; I love having my ass spanked and any roles that lend themselves to that end. I would also like to be spanked by a woman. I have never been across a woman's lap and the idea excites me to no end. I also enjoy hard, pounding sex in... subservient... positions. I am very mental in my sexual play; meaning my head has to be into it as much as my body.

I am attracted to men who have a sense of humor, a sharp wit and some degree of intelligence. I'm not looking for rocket scientists but prefer someone who has at least read a book in the last decade.

I truly apprecitate a man who is passionate, who likes to kiss and lick and bite (a little).; a man who is sensuous, who likes to touch and carress and explore.

I am BBW (5'4" & 190 lbs) and I would describe myself as "cute" I'm intelligent and charming and very sweet and even if there is no "chemistry" you will not regret it if you should get to know me because I'm a lot of fun!

Oh, I also have an oral fixation and love to give head!!!

My Ideal Person: I am looking for someone who can keep up their end of an intelligent conversation, someone who is honest and sincere, someone who makes me laugh. (Also, if there is anyone out there who plays Backgammon-Acie/Deucie, this would be a definite plus and probably further advance your cause.) I would love to meet a man with a strong imagination who knows how to use it.

I am not interested in married men! I'm sure there are some very nice married men out there but, ya' know..."You call it joggin', I call it runnin' around!"

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
neil young, indigo girls, jimy buffett, counting crows,
wilco, bruce springsteen, joan biaz,

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Leather, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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