I'm ONLY here for the blogs and to swap e-mails with friends. If you want to e-mail me, I'm OK with that, but don't waste your time or mine by trying to convince me to meet, swap phone numbers or even swap personal e-mail addresses. Ain't gonna happen. Most of my friends I’ve made through the blogs. If you think you want to be friends, that is the place I’d suggest starting.

I’m also not looking for pen pals. While I try to reply to every message I get, if you are looking at me as someone to swap messages with on an on-going basis, you had better get and keep my interest. As far as IM, unless I specifically ask, please don't send me your info and ask about it...I just don't do it that often unless it is with my lover.

Please know that I am educated and professional and I expect you to be as well. If not, don't waste your time or mine. I am also a very fun loving and energetic person. Other than that, I'm pretty much a regular girl ....a little opinionated, but then hey - aren't we all?

Please don't send cock pictures. I know you are proud of it, but honestly, if that is what you lead with, I'm DEFINITELY not interested. Believe it or not, it doesn't draw women like you think it does. Every man has a cock and I haven't found one yet that doesn't get the job done quite nicely.

As I say above, I'm here to chat with friends and "graze" the site. I have made a few very good friends here that I still chat and exchange messages with. I also like reading the blogs and occasionally posting on mine. Other than that, my lover occupies what little time I have to get away.

Finally - I've always been a little bit of an exhibitionist, so take a minute to check out my pics - I hope you like them. Having said that, I don't send or accept network invites to anyone and everyone. If we haven't gotten to know each other through the blogs or e-mail, don't bother sending an invite...

My Ideal Person: I have found what I am looking for. He is an educated, articulate, attractive, man and he is way beyond phenomenal in bed. Being married, my time is precious and play time is hard to come by and he is very understanding of that.

I am OK with making new friends. What I am NOT interested in is: "hey I'll be in town in a few weeks for three nights if you want to get together."

I am also not interested in: "I may not be local, but I'm in your area regularly."

Also, realize that I am married. Even if I wanted to, I can't sneak away for a weekend in paradise - or Ft Wayne for that matter!

It amazes me that with everything written above, I STILL get guys sending me messages trying to convince me that they are different. You may very well be something special, but it doesn't matter. I still have no interest in any type of meeting or relationship beyond swapping some e-mail messages.

Like I said, I love meeting new people and making new friends but I'm not interested in swapping erotic messages. I LOVE erotic chats and swapping sext messages with my lover, but have NO desire to do so with other guys....

Thanks for being understanding.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No interest at all.

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