I currently ended a 3 1/2 yr relationship (Jan 2009) and it was much needed!! I would like to find someone who I can hang out with a few times a week, have some drinks, talk, laughs and sometimes to fullfill our sexual needs. I need someone who can respect what I am looking for and not expect anything but for us to pleasure each other in the time that we spend together (for now anyway). I am not against it leading into something else if the connection is there, but not lookin to rush into anything now... I am enjoying the single life again and not ready to be tied down BUT I am looking for one person to hang out with, not a one night stand or multiple partners..... SAFE SEX IS A MUST! Being SANE is a MUST as well! (420 friendly)

My Ideal Person: Someone who is open minded with a great sense of humor and can have fun. You don't take life so serious, it's too short, you enjoy everyday as it comes. You are a positive person that is fun to be around. I love to laugh and I have a great sense of humor!! Must be respectful of me and my feelings/boundaries. And lastly, I prefer African American men, that is my preference, please don't take offense.
P.S. I like my men clean shaven (both heads!) with GREAT hygiene. Closely shaved and taken care of Goatee is a plus!