Time to revamp the profile yet again...life changes...therefore needs and desires change as well...

I'm outspoken, open-minded and not afraid of what I want...I will be the first to admit tact is not my forte...if I'm thinking it more than likely it's going to come out...that said, I'm learning slowly that some things are best just left unsaid.

I honestly at this point couldn't begin to tell you why I'm here. Friendship...blogging...shrug...whatever may come in between will be different on any given day.

I am most definitely bi. I love the feel of a man and wouldn't dream of giving that up, but nothing beats being with another woman. Sexually I tend to be more on the submissive side...I crave being able to let go of control occasionally..but, I know what I want and am not afraid to ask for it...a little more to the left please..lol..

I love flirting...with both men and women...and love it when they flirt back...that doesn't mean I'm going to jump into bed with you!?!...

My Ideal Person: I'm not really looking for anything in particular...definitely no one night stands...you don't get to really know what makes your partner moan and squirm the first time...it takes time to get truly comfortable with someone and to know their quirks,eccentricities and unique talents...

I've got a significant other who will always know where I am and what I'm doing...problem with that...shrug not my issue.

Someone who is easy going and knows how to have a good time in and out of bed would be a must...someone I can connect with intellectually as well as physically...developing a great friendship would be a good thing...if we can't carry on a conversation and have a good time before sex, then more than likely the sex isn't going to be good anyway, if it gets that far...afterall we all know the chemistry has to be there for it to work.

Mutual Respect, Safety and Discretion are a must!!!...and common sense is always a good trait....a little class wouldn't hurt either...

I don't want someone with a lot of hangups or issues, with me or themselves...I won't pick you apart and tell you what's wrong with you and needs fixed, I don't expect you to do it with me either...

Pushy, shallow, judgemental individuals...we all know they're out there...are you one of them?..if so we won't mesh..If you had an issue with me before I lost all the weight, keep looking, because I'm still that same fat chick inside who isn't afraid to hand you your head on a platter for being an idiot then or now.

Remember, if the connection is there it'll be apparant....you can't "make" that happen.

Men, and yes you women too, if you're attached and your hiding it from your spouse or significant other, or they don't agree with it, it's an affair, plain and simple, no matter how you package it...and I have no interest in being a part of that...

And I don't care who you are...Don't email me asking if I have a friend who would be interested in a 3some....last time I checked this wasn't a couples profile...

BTW if you made it this far and thought man what a bitch she is, then good I weeded out another one I don't want to hear from...lol.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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