I've not had much luck on here but I keep trying anyway. So here's my little ol life: I work, have three horses, two cats, two dogs and a parrot and my mother lives with me. A great deal of my time is taken up by my work, my horses and my mom. Sorta came to the conclusion that I have very little time for much else in my life. Unless I can find a man who is willing to put up with me and except my life as it is. Maybe I'm not being fair, however, right now this is how it is. Not many men are accepting of a woman like me. I'm independent and hate being told what to do by anybody. I'm above average on looks, I'm alittle thick but not excessive. I have been married before w/no kids so I don't think I'm good marriage material. I do things to suit myself. Most men my age are looking for someone to take care of them. Been there, done that so not looking to do it again. I like dating younger men. I don't consider myself a "cougar" just a woman. I don't want to take care of anyone and I don't want any one to take care of me. I take care of my mom. Been single over ten yrs, never have had a "real" boyfriends, however, I'm no saint either. I don't like one night stands or NSA, however that seems to be how it is now days. I wouldn't mine having a FWB's but who knows... Aside from what I wrote, I find my happiness with my horses the most.

My Ideal Person: Quite honestly, this is like looking for a needle in a haystack, but here goes, looking for a honest, sincere, affectionate, sexy, confident, relaxed, happy, kind, good hearted man. I am tired of NSA it gets old and I want someone who wants to be with me. I want to be up front and as honest as I can be here. Also, I need to feel a connection, you know that bit of chemistry that sizzles when yours eyes first meet and that bit of electricity when you touch. That kind of attraction is awesome. Please have a pic, available to send me. Please be single, period. If I find out that you are attached I will drop you like a hot potato! I'm not into being the another woman. What I want is friendship first and I hope for the possibility of something more. If you feel brave, contact me. Let’s keep it casual coffee or drinks somewhere simple but in public for safety.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Massage

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