I’m an honest, friendly, fun, compassionate, passionate woman who is playful and sexy, opinionated, but not judgmental. I’m relatively independent and do enjoy time to myself, yet much prefer sharing my thoughts and experiences with someone else. I’m easy to get to know and talk to, generally have a positive attitude, don’t hold back when I desire something/someone.

I openly admit that my sexuality is a big part of who I am. It's an important aspect of a relationship. I'm of the belief that physical chemistry is there from the moment you meet someone - or it isn't. I can’t say I'm ready (or able) to settle down for sure, but I'm hoping to find a man I want to be in some type of significant relationship with. I want to “date” – movies, dinners, concerts, yes, chill out at home too, I want the whole package.

My Ideal Person: I can't say I know what my ideal person is. I don't have a particular body type or appearance that appeals to me. Intellect (not necessarily a brainiac), an air of self-confidence, wit and a touch of sarcasm is what I'm looking for. And, he's got to make me laugh. Playful banter is great foreplay.

I am mainly interested in men who live close by, generally within 15 miles of me. We may have a lot in common, but if getting together is complicated, that's not much fun, is it?

Additionally, even if you're hot, have a great cock, and numerous other redeeming qualities, if you're under 40 I'm not really interested. I'm looking for more then just a superficial relationship. Yes, age is just a number, but there tends to be a deeper connection made by people with shared life experiences. I'm looking for that connection. No married men please...no moral criticism, just not what I'm looking for. My stated age here is 50; I'm actually 57. No qualms about how old I am. I keep it under 50 for search purposes only.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
No specific person or location. Just the scenario of being
with someone, neither of us able to control our sexual urges.
Passion completely out of control. Compelled to kiss,
touch, lick, caress until both of us reach orgasm by oral
sex and/or as I feel his erect penis enter me.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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