It takes me a while to relax and get comfortable when I meet someone new, so I'm looking for someone who is willing to take some time to get to know me, and let me get to know him, before we jump straight into "the good stuff." Exchanging emails and IM chats help this process along, but being interested in meeting a time or two or three for coffee, or dinner, or just hanging out, is even better. I prefer to meet relatively local people for that reason. Just hanging out becomes a complicated event when you're an hour or more away.

My Ideal Person: An ongoing friends-with-benefits type relationship would be ideal, although once the comfort level has been established, I'm not necessarily opposed to just the "benefits." One night stands don't work for me though. There's nothing wrong with them, they just aren't for me.

To capture my attention, you should be intelligent, funny, kind, compassionate, responsible, playful, and respectful. I rarely reply to one line emails! I am currently a standard member, so please check the box to use the email option "attach your profile" so I can get to know you better!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Dave Matthews Band and Alanis Morissette, everyone else
cycles through fairly quickly

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A store dressing room

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

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