I'm a plus sized BBW big gal just moved back home to Oklahoma.
I still own my house & land in Wisconsin & not selling it.

I fly for enjoyment whenever I can with my children.
I am widowed and un-attached & just here looking for friends nothing serious.

Just looking for people who wants to go out & have fun times with me no matter male or female.

Just searching for some people who'd like to be friends & if it turns into anything more then we'll see if not no worries at least I made a new friend.

You don't need to like my friends and I don't need to like Your friends.

****This isn't a lady here who isn't looking for marriage. I have my house's and my children & love the life I have raising them by myself being able to travel now anytime anywhere whenever I like to.
I'm the Queen of my own castle's No Kings or Queens needed.****

I'm a mixed raced BBW woman who weighs more then 200 lbs but I think that I hold it nicely.
I'm a very independent, open-minded, self sufficient, confident,at times serious and can also be funny & I love to smile & laugh.
I'm very free spirited. I feel that I'm an active woman & I love to always be busy & on the go.
I'm not one who lives on the couch if You know what I mean. I like to always be upbeat & positive.
Funny but true how so many people I know never believe I'm as big as I am but like I said I know how to dress & hold my weight nicely.
I like to look good, keep nails painted, wear perfumes. ect..
I'm clean & drug & disease free & plan on staying this way.

I feel that I'm a open minded woman who knows how to have fun both in and out of the bedroom.

Commitment-wise, I'm a widowed woman so at this time I am not searching for marriage.

I'm not a frequent visitor of the bars & clubs, but do hang out whenever I feel like it & do have drinks just not in excess nor daily. Casual drinker type. I am not a daily regular smoker too. I smoke VERY rarely mostly during special occasion's, or out with friends at a club or bar, or for ceremonial purposes. Never smoke in my vehicles or my house. Growing up & being of a mixed race has had it's ups & downs, but I am proud to be part of both cultures the Native American Indian culture as well as the Caucasian. I follow my NA beliefs.

"You Must Be Free Of STD'S IF we should connect & become on a more closer level,,,,I'm completely STD Free & with being a single widowed parent that means a lot to me that I remain this way. That's why I'm only here to meet people who are looking for friends no matter the sex."

My intentions here is to meet new people & make new friends. I'm not here looking for a lover or lovers,,,just looking for friends. If it turns into something more then a friendship then thats fine too.
I've been a member here for a few years and I tried searching for someone special who wasn't wanting marriage and such but that never worked out for me so now I revised my profile here with hope in meeting a few new friends.


**NOTE** I'M NOT INTO HIGH RISK PER SAY THE MANY E-MAILS I'VE BEEN GETTING HERE LATELY OFFERING TO MEET ME TODAY AND LETS DO WHATEVER INTIMATELY TODAY KIND OF WOMAN.
I'M NO ESCORT, NO WHORE, NO BAR FLY, ECT,..NO PICK ME UP AT A CORNER AND DO ME KINDA GAL TOO. I'M SAFE, DISCREET, AND NEED TO MEET YOU 1ST HAND AND SEE IF THERE WE CLICK. RESPECT MY SAFETY & RESPECT ME ENOUGH TO KNOW I'M PRETTY NEW AT THIS & JUST WANT TO LIVE LIFE AND ENJOY IT WITHOUT ANY UNWANTED STD'S OR SOME MENTALLY ILL WACKO THAT WANTS TO MEET ME PLAY OUT HIS SICK FANTASY AND SUCH AND HURT ME. IF YOU WANT A ONE NITE STAND OR ENJOY RISK GO TO THE NEAREST BAR AND JUST DO IT. I GOT SOME STANDARDS THAT NEED TO BE RESPECTED OKAY?
ALSO IF YOU HAVE NO PICTURE THATS FINE, BUT IF YOU WANT TO CONTACT ME THEN ATTACH A FACE PHOTO TO YOUR E-MAIL HERE OR YOU CAN FORGET IT. HEY AS I SEE IT, "IF I GOT THE GUMPH TO PLACE A PHOTO SO SHOULD YOU ALSO I FEEL." OTHER WISE DON'T BOTHER CONTACTING ME. THANKS FOR TAKING THE TIME TO VIEW MY PROFILE HERE. COLOR royalblue]

My Ideal Person: Not hung up on looks or body size it's who You are on the inside to me that matter's.

I really could care less if you own all the bells and whistles in the world.

I could care less how much money you make for that matter or if Your a professional or a blue collar worker. I think it's what's on the inside that counts and also that You know how to treat a lady right.
I do seek friends who are not a heavy smokers or a heavy drinkers.
If you smoke a little or drink a little that's fine by me, or not at all that's fine too.

I'm here just looking for friends.

If the chemistry is right you must be disease free like me.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Leather, Massage, just ask, I might tell

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
They're just regular people just like You & I in
my eye's so I've never ever fantasized about having
sex with a celebrity.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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