** I'm on the fence about whether I want to get involved with people in open relationships. Granted, you're obviously not cheating... but i still don't know whether I want to get involved with that. What can i say? I kinda want a guy to crave *[B]me[/B]* hehe =] i do, however, think it's pretty cool you guys are so secure with each other that you guys have no problems with jealousy, etc ^_^ \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\** I get a lot of emails from guys asking if i'm interested in them. 1) you don't send me a picture. 2) you say nothing else in your email AND i also can't even view your profile b/c i refuse to pay to use a f f?! so... NO? a picture of *your face* or other part of *yourself* and/or if you say something interesting ==> If any of those intrigue me then yes, i will respond with a face pic of myself. and you can't send me a single pic unless i give you my email address? total BS. (although it's starting to sound like it's an aff mobile app that's behind all this or am i getting emails from a slew of you that don't even have a damn computer?) \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*5/11 update*: i'm back... kind of. i abandoned a f f for sites geared towards more [I]meaningful[/I] relationships before giving up on dating altogether for a few months--even playing WoW to keep myself out of trouble XD. it seemed like i had skipped what i thought would be my eventual, inevitable Cougar Phase and had slipped into the impossible Spinster Phase. ugh. so the most sedentary period of my life has rendered me a little squishy. But yea. i'm back to hitting the gym and sidling back into the dating pool. (end of update) ------------ my ex's roommates called me a nympho :P with the right guy, i can orgasm ~20x a tumble. so while I'm not looking for a serious relationship, passionate sex is an important factor. almost just as important, though, is someone who i can comfortably act like a dweeb with, so i require a certain level of intelligence & education. as hot as you may be, i don't feel like adding another tally to my count just for sex with a stranger. I'd like to enjoy his company like i might savor a good pint of beer or a glass of wine (which really isn't that time-consuming considering my asian tendencies if you're worried about it fellas), and i think it's far hotter when i have another level of connection w/ him. BUT i'm not ready for a serious relationship, either. i'm too busy for anyone needy or clingy. [B][COLOR deeppink]i'm a standard member. i can't view your profile. One liner emails and/or no face pics = no reply.[/B][/COLOR] [SIZE 2][I] Note: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.:-"[/SIZE][/I]

My Ideal Person See above. Note that if the only thing you can talk about is "let's fuck, baby" when we chat, I'm likely to start ignoring you. while i'm not ready for a relationship, i want to be respected as a person and appreciated for who i am and not treated like some slut. I want to be shown that i'm craved and not just a magic box for your cock.

And seriously, what is with all these LA guys thinking I'd approve of unsheathed penetration? stop messing w/ my will power! haha. no condom = no respect + no brains. in addition, i am NOT likely to contact you again. Is it b/c I always went out with scientists in san diego and now i've been going out with more of the art-inclined in LA? no matter how DD-free we both claim to be, 1) i am Not willing to compromise my safety, 2) i don't want kids, and 3) i won't believe you're going sheathed with your other chicks.

I tend to be interested in guys older than me, but not that much b/c I appreciate someone i can look up to and i'd feel weird if i'm the more mature one in terms of mental capabilities and life experiences. So: preferred AGE RANGE = 28 - 35. Lately, though, I think my cougar instincts are starting to kick in so I might be going for 24+, but mostly b/c they tend to take better care of their physical health (or perhaps their beer bellies haven't slumped out yet) =)

if you're just dying to send me a hairy and limp cock shot, that's definite insurance you will NEVER hear from me. a well manicured and delicious region is a totally different story, though I do prefer face pics =) I tend not to send mine out until i've chatted with you for a bit. hmmm... oh yea.. you also need to be able to handle a chick who doesn't have a lot of time, but when she does, likes to play hard.

please don't contact me if:
- you can't spell on a regular basis (if it's on purpose, that's a different story)
- you don't sound remotely intelligent on the phone
- you're married or in a relationship
- you're the type that has unprotected sex.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
tool, m.manson, valient thorr, early man, earthless,
gogol bordello, built to spill, peculiar pretze

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
getting carnal in the back of a pickup truck under a huge
expanse of stars... or in the middle of a forest. i can't
decide. mmmm... oh yea. :D~

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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