You ever sit back and just start wondering how you got to where you are in your life? Why you’re with the person/people that you’re with, your family, friends, co-workers and everyone else that’s tied in? The choices we make are what define us, not simply because they chart the course of our days, but because they indicate who we are and give those outside our lives a better glimpse into who and what we were, are, and could be, given the chance.

Having said that, I’ll give you a little insight into my own life, as that’s what a profile is all about.

I’m a very happy woman. One-third of a closed polyamorous triad: loving wife and girlfriend. Between the three of us, we have three lovely children which are the apex of our lives and the focal points of our love. We’re not open for negotiation or new playmates, but here to keep in contact with friends we’ve made over the years that we’ve been in residence here on this site, while making new ones that we can talk to and not have to worry about being judged for our life decisions. Let’s face it . . . not many people in the “real” world are all that accepting of alternative family styles, and so, it’s hard to talk to people out them, unless you have a good idea of how open minded they are.

So please . . . don’t send me stupid e-mails asking to hook up or get together. I’m really not interested in how your wife/girlfriend/female friend is looking for their first “bi experience” since I’m not into chicks, and the guys aren’t bi either, no matter how hard you might want to argue.

As to when we’ll be back in action . . . I don’t know. Could be a very long time, could be very soon . . . but don’t pester us.

Thanks for taking the time to read, and may all your wishes come true.

My Ideal Person: Folks that are open and understanding that we're not looking for anything other than being JUST friends. Don't read anything into that, it means what it says. "JUST FRIENDS" means JUST FRIENDS. NOTHING ELSE!!!