I am a 36 year old woman living in the Northport area. I have black hair and brown eyes. I'm about 5'4. I'm not a waif----I have soft skin, shapely thighs, and a great butt (have been told). LOL---Not a flat one by any means.
I'm looking for a tall & handsome man over the age of 35 (preferably but not written in stone) for some fun on the side.
(What part of HANDSOME do guys NOT understand?)

My Ideal Person: My partner should be over 35,(again, preferably---it's the maturity I'm looking for). HANDSOME is a MUST and tall would be good. He must know how to pamper a lady. I'm very shy, so you'll have to take the initiative. I am a little over weight, just a bit, but not fat or chunky. Some people claim to be a little over weight and you find out that they understated it a great deal. LOL. Not me. It's not like you can hide that detail when you meet, so why do people bother lying about it!--- I'm told I'm a pretty nice person, attractive and look young for my age. I'm not that experienced with being with men other than my husband, so don't be disappointed if I get all shy about it. I'm hoping to find passion. Nothing slow. Passionate (aggressive) is what I want. I want a nice guy, an aggressive man in bed. I like to talk and to be treated like a lady, it's not just all sex. I like conversations too. I know I'm rambling, but that's the way I am. I'm looking for someone I can actually talk to, maybe someone that can understand my needs. The ideal guy should be able to handle being with a woman from a "different" ethnic background.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

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