NOT looking for random sex. If you are just looking to get laid, I respect that. But look elsewhere. Looking for good friends and possibly a secondary relationship with the right person. I'm in a relationship now, which is open. He comes first and is aware of my search here.

Also, not interested in couples at this time.

NOT interested in married men cheating on their wives!!!!

I am a curvy, constantly evolving, usually intelligent lady looking for fun. My tastes are varied yet it can take a while to tease them out and get me to explore them- are you up to the challenge?

I enjoy men and women that are intelligent but not snooty, confident but not arrogant, attractive but not conceited. So, what I'm saying is, be down-to-earth but not a doormat and most importantly, have a sense of humor! Making me laugh will always win you points.

I have an interest in BDSM and am on staff with a 4-day kink event called Twisted Tryst. If there are any other attendees in the audience, or if you just have questions- drop me a line!

My Ideal Person: I am not looking for a one night stand. I prefer to get to know someone before going between the sheets. If you are married or attached, I will not be the secret "woman on the side"- I won't even consider it. Definitely not looking for NSA!

Preferred age range: 28-43

I am looking for someone that is intelligent and honest. I like my partners to tell/show me what to do in the bedroom, but have no problem occasionally taking control. Please, when you contact me, attach a pic to your message; those messages without a pic attached will not receive a reply. You've seen me, its only fair that I see you. Also, non-smokers only please. Please keep in mind that above all, good taste and manners are greatly appreciated and expected, and will go a long way with me.

Please if you are interested, instead of just "winking", send a tasteful message. I respond better to a decent email than a wink or a poorly written "lets f@*k* note. I have my standards.

It may sound as though my standards and expectations are high. Well, thats because they are. The beautiful thing about this site is the large pool of people to choose from and the ability to be selective.

Show some balls (well not literally!), be true to yourself and drop me a line!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, A store dressing room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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