Well, I'm not looking for any long-term relationships at the moment -- if it happens, it happens, but I'm not seeking one. Playing around is more fun, and less work.
Physically, I'm "large". If that's a problem for you, well, that's your problem, isn't it?

My Ideal Person: Well, I tend to like androgynous people, both male and female -- pretty boys and such. I especially like the idea of gay/bi men (SO hot). I'm bi, leaning towards lesbian (I love girls/women. Just everything about them is wonderful). I'll try almost anything, as long as I feel that I can trust the person doing it to not screw it up. The very short list of things I will NOT do include: foot fetishes (I think feet are gross), , excrement play, and anything that would lead to permanent scars. I also find ink on skin to be very erotic, so I would be especially happy to have someone to write on, or who would write on me, and tattoos are also a big plus. Oh, and do love a boy that'll bend over for me; reciprocity is hot.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Gorillaz, Pogues, That Handsome Devil, Flogging Molly, David
Bowie, Kimya Dawson, Gogol Bordello

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Well, I like awesome voices and twisted characters, so my top picks would be Shane McGowan from
the Pogues (he's UGLY, but his songs are AMAZING) and
Murdoc Niccals from the Gorillaz (because he's crazy,
but he's got the rock star thing going on, and having
sex with a cartoon would be awesome).


On the feminine front, my #1 celebrity crush is Queen Latifah,
who is just ridiculously stunning. Close second is Camryn
Manheim, especially in Road to Wellville. Cushy and lovely
and bawdy, my perfect woman.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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