I'M BACK!!! I MISS THE PEOPLE HERE ON Passion.com AND REALIZE THAT THERE ARE GOOD PEOPLE AND THERE IS BAD. THERE ARE MEN WHO CANT FIGURE OUT WHAT THEY WANT AND THERE ARE MEN WHO USE AND ABUSE. I AM NOT BACK FOR ONE NIGHT STANDS NOR A BOOTY CALL.... YOU WANNA GET TO KNOW ME THEN LOVE ME FOR ME AND BE REAL INSTEAD OF BEING A BIG JOKE. IF YOU WANT TO PLAY WITH MEN GO SOMEWHERE ELSE, IF YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH A BUNCH OF WOMEN AND ME GO FLY A KITE, IF YOUR MARRIED PLEASE NEED I SAY MORE, AND IF YOU GOT A BUNCH OF KIDS AND CANT AFFORD TO DO NOTHING BUT BUY A CUP OF NOODLES AND WANT ME PLEASE GIVE ME A BREAK WALK AWAY . I'M A GOOD WOMAN WITH A BIG HEART DONT BREAK IT!!!!

My Ideal Person: well this me::::

Interdependence
Bottom line: I need someone who responds to the fact that you enjoy the reassurance of physical contact and emotional sharing, but who helps keeps dependency in check in the relationship so that you two do not lose your identities as individuals and whose character is deserving of your loyalty and affection.

Intimacy
Bottom line: I need someone who will understand and accept a slow pace for emotional intimacy with you and provide frequent reassurance of their feelings and intentions as the relationship is taken to progressive levels.

Self-efficacy
Bottom line: I need a partner who is energetic, enthusiastic and has high self-efficacy like you and will support or even participate in your personal and professional interests that feed your sense of identity and accomplishment.

Relationship readiness
Bottom line: I need someone who will be patient and supportive as you figure out your needs rather than who will rush the relationship prematurely.

Communication
Bottom line: I need someone who will not put up emotional barriers when you seek to understand his/her thoughts and feelings, but rather will communicate with you intimately and candidly.

Conflict resolution
Bottom line: I need a partner who is patient, a “big picture thinker” and can relinquish control and pride to make the best decisions for the good and growth of the relationship.

Sexuality
Bottom line: I need someone who regards sex as a meaningful bond between people in love and who appreciates being the center of attention in the bedroom

Attitudes toward love
Bottom line: I need someone who satisfies the hopeless romantic in you but who will insist that you take time to get to know each other well before the taking the relationship to next levels.

Preferred Expressions of Affection
Bottom line: I need someone who can express affection through tangible surprises – such as fun gifts he makes, souvenirs purchased on business trips or beautiful tokens or presents that show he remembers and celebrates special occasions.

Bottom line: This does not mean that I like nor need Verbal Communication. Rather, it suggests that I need someone who can show affection in ways other than just verbal expressions such as spontaneous compliments, frequent “I love you’s,” occasional notes for you to find and recognition of your achievements.

IF YOU CAN'T DEAL WITH THIS THEN ON TO THE NEXT

DON’T BE THAT GUY”

DON’T BE THAT GUY
The one who makes ME cry
DON’T BE THAT GUY
The One who tells ME lies
DON’T BE THAT GUY
The one with bad intentions from the start
DON’T BE THAT GUY
The one who breaks MY heart
DON’T BE THAT GUY
The one who forgets MT birthday
DON’T BE THAT GUY
The one who doesn’t show he cares in every way
DON’T BE THAT GUY
The one who doesn’t value the simple things in MY life
DON’T BE THAT GUY
That blows the chance to make ME your wife
DON’T BE THAT GUY
The one that doesn’t give ME what I need
DON’T BE THAT GUY
The one that doesn’t encourage ME to succeed
DON’T BE THAT GUY
So many people and things can make ME cry
Do us all a favor and make sure that you
“DON’T BE THAT GUY”

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