I've reached that half century mark and beyond and I am loving life. I think life and sex just gets better with age and experience. I've been on this site for a while and have met some very wonderful people. Some have moved on and others will be friends forever. But I'm more interested at this point in my life for a long term relationship. I've had some fun and now I want someone fun AND not afraid of some commitment. I'm a curvy women. Perhaps voluptuous would be a better term. I'm not slim. I don't have a hard body. I might be average, but average to what? I like intelligent conversation, good music, and humor. I'm very liberal, politically, socially and sexually. I'm also very active. I golf, bowl, snowshoe, swim, hike, exercise regularly, just took up kayaking and consider sex a contact sport. I can't remember ever saying "Honey, I have a headache." But I have had some partners say that I would be the death of them. Is that a bad thing?
I read profiles that say "I don't want to change my life, just...." I'm here because I want to change my life and I would hope the men I meet would want that also. I like my life, but if I didn't want something else I wouldn't be here. I will change your life. Plan on it.

My Ideal Person: I'm looking for great sex. Isn't everyone on this site? But also someone who can see beyond my 38 DD's to the fact that I also have a brain. I like men who think with more then the head below their waist. I don't want to be staring at the ceiling, with nothing to say after sex. Turn me on with your mind and drive me wild with your passion. I also want someone who makes me laugh often and loud. I would like someone to play with in AND out of bed. I don't want to just meet, hop in bed and be done. If you are looking for totally, no strings attached sex, then look elsewhere. I want some attachment. Sex is wonderful any time, but can be incredible with the right connection. I'm not interested in an affair with a married man. Don't bother to write. I won't respond. I'm also not looking for a one night stand. So if you are traveling through town and want to meet, I'm not the right one. I would like to connect on a little higher level. Higher then the neck, in case you thought that I meant the knees. So please send a picture of the head on your neck. Unless you have an amazing head below the waist, they all look pretty much the same.
I admit that I want it all. I want the passion, the intelligence and the possiblity of a future. It may only be a few months or a few years or maybe the rest of our lives. Be open to the possiblities.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Mary Chapin Carpenter, Sarah McLachlan, Lowen and Navarro,
ShelbyLynn

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, The stands at a sporting event, My desk at work, A store dressing room, Any location will do if I'm turned on enough.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I don't really fantasize about celebrities but I couldn't
understand the debate about whether Demi Moore should
have taken a million dollars to sleep with Robert Redford.
That's a no brainer. I'd pay him. I also would not
push Brad Pitt, Chris Isak, John Cusack or Denzel Washington
out of bed.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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