Well I guess its time for a little bit of an update - I've been seriously surprised at the number of responses I've gotten - but I do have to ask one thing - guys - please - I've tried to be specific in what I'm seeking - my preference is black men - please don't message asking if I'll consider something else - also I am really not interested in anyone just happening thru Dallas - I am looking for real long-term relationships not drive by sex - now if you're a single black man in Dallas please read on - I'm a single straight forward bbw/thick girl - fairly attractive with a big heart and a huge sex drive - also a bright enough girl to realize the man I'm looking for just may not exist - I've experienced the variety and excitement of the lifestyle - and I have to say I'm quite hooked on it - I just love sex - oral, anal, fingers, toys, even fisting and DP - but after a few years of just playing life is seeming a bit empty - reality is that even freaks need love - now the question - is there a man out there that I could have true love with again? - one that also understands my need to get wild? - like just me and 3 or 4 men sort of wild - I'm scared he's just a figment of my imagination - but if what I've said interests you - please message

Ok time for another update I guess - and maybe one long over due - if you're reading this closely and carefully I appreciate it - and guys I'd appreciate one other thing - please - PLEASE - do not write to do me the favor of letting me know that I'll never find a man for a relationship here - that can love me and the way that I am sexually - I know not everyone has the mindset to understand - but you CAN love someone and share them sexually - if that's a concept you can't grasp I understand and respect that - PLEASE understand and respect my beliefs the same way - the man who reads this - smiles nodding his head and says that's my girl - don't let them take your heart and hopes - HE'S the one I hope messages me

OK yet another long overdue update - I created this profile years ago before becoming a single mom - now no play friends - damn near celibate - looking for something real - but someone that is ok with my past - wouldn't rule out playing again but only if i can find that special man to share it with - still not looking for fwb or one nighters - anyone love freaky sex as much as I do but still believe in love?

My Ideal Person: looking for intelligent clean cut professional black men that are secure enough to deal with a woman with a strong strong sexuality - not meaning to sound bold but I've got a few play friends - so to be honest married/involved men need not respond - I'm looking for more than just no strings fun - I would eventually love to find a single man that understands my needs for sexual variety and in particular my bit of a slutty side for a long term relationship - I do love one on one as well as group play - would love to find a man strong enough to share me

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I love a man that can be a bit controlling at times - a bit subbie or slutty to the right man or men ;) - but nothing mean - the naughtiness of the interracial aspect is a definate turn on too - tell me what a good sweet whore I am for taking all that big black cock and I just lose it :P

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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