blog speedqueen08 - that is where you will find the answers to your questions. READ "Answers to your questions" and "more answers to your questions" BEFORE you contact me. PLEASE. The one titled Barbie has brains and a penchant for mind blowing orgasms is kinda fun, too...

I am no longer looking - paid coaching is available only to those who want to learn how to find something more fulfilling than what you have now (you are looking or you would not be here).

What turns me on: intelligent, mannered, respectful people, grace, style, well dressed (even though I used to spend an inordinate amount of time in sweats and tennies at the greenhouse) – now it is just bikinis or not at the beach, speed, control - because power is nothing without control, childlike curiosity, treating others the way you want to be treated, sunrises at the beach watching my dog play in the surf, sunsets with a great bottle of wine (white), chocolate crepes and blush wines, grass fed beef, 6" heels, being pampered and dressed to go out to dinner, watching sporting events live, jazz with cognac and a great cigar, sailing, camping, someone I can share with on a deep and meaningful level – as in a real conversation, giving and receiving pleasure, intense orgasms, trust, love, confidence, dancing/clubbing, pushing limits, comedy, being there to watch the light bulb go "on" above people's heads.

What turns me off: shallow, vulgar people who put themselves first

Last movies I saw - 2012, This is it (highly recommend it), The Tourist, The Immortals

Favorite movies: The Devil's Advocate, Matrix series, both of the Thomas Crown Affairs, Rocky Horror Picture Show, A Christmas Story, Animal House

Favorite color: purple

Last books I read: Shut Up, Quit Whining and Get a Life, The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity, The Four Agreements

Favorite food - the ones made with love, organic

Things still to do on my bucket list:
1) Find a suitable partner to share and grow with
2) Rent a castle in Germany, take a Maclaren on the Autobahn to Paris, dine in the Eiffel tower, base jump off, get on Desmods, bullet ride the streets and wake up on the beach
3) Sail to the Greek isles
4) Re-hire my personal chef (I moved and she did not want to move with me)
5) Continue to learn something new everyday
6) Find the positives in every aspect of a negative situation

About the video - yes, it is real. So are the cams. I have been able to do that my whole life. Can you imagine how uncomfortable it was as a teenager to try to explain to the football player bf that I wasn't peeing on him - back when nobody ever heard of this?

Never been married - was engaged 4 times - am still waiting to meet Mr. Right - have met lots and lots of Mr. Right-Now's - I do not have any children

Thank you for the compliment, but I have LESS THAN ZERO interest in a one night hook up because you are not happy with your wife - get a divorce!!! Do you really think I want to play second fiddle to your wife or gf for even one second?

If you act like a dick to me - I do not care how big your dick is. I will pass on one night stands – no hit and runs – interested in the energy connection in someone who will keep up

I am a complete package. I do not need someone else to complete me. I want someone to play with. The toys are great but they are boring dinner conversationalists.

My Ideal Person: Once upon a time, in a land far, far away, I went on a first date that lasted 7 years. When we separated, I spent the next 2 years crying on my Belgian velvet chaise. He set the bar really high. I reciprocated. I am willing to accept another mind blowing relationship with a partner who understands the difference between touching a body part that exudes fluid and touching a heart.

Since I may be fishing in the shallow end of the pond, allow me to tell you a little bit about what I am expecting from YOU… I am a romantic from top to toes. I love being pampered. Looking for a TOTAL PACKAGE that KNOWS he can keep up. Total package means what is between the ears, nipples and thighs are equally important to me. I prefer a chiseled adonis, Twenty (or Thirty) somethings, single, never married, no kids, no neurotic ex-wife, intelligent, educated, classy - knows how to dress himself and likes dressing me, too. Clean - as in the place where you sleep as well as you. You should be at least 8+ inches to ride the ride successfully. 14+ is a balls deep bonus for both. Stamina is a requirement - the longer you can stay in the saddle the better it will feel. If you do not give your best - do not expect me to.

Who knew it would be so hard to find a suitable partner for mind blowing insane sex on a daily basis?

I will not attempt to change you or yell at you or play head games and I expect the same from you. Say what you mean, mean what you say and everything will be ok between us.

I like meeting people in public as a general rule. I feel it is safe and there is no pressure.

Chivalry is not dead… as in - you would be embarrassed to meet me without flowers/lei (or something to show you are interested in making a great first impression), you pull out my chair, you help me with my coat and you give me your hand to help me in and out of the car…

Someone taught you manners… as in you know which fork goes with what course, your napkin belongs in your lap and you use it, your meals are spent with equal amounts of eating and talking, you chew with your mouth closed. I am more interested in what you want for your future than what has happened in your past unless you have a funny story to impart that will make me want to spend more time with you.

Making me laugh gives you bonus points.

You are not in competition with me. I am not in competition with you. If you feel the need to keep score you are not the person for me.

Anticipate my needs and I will do the same for you. If you want something extraordinary BE extraordinary.

Everyone desires to be desired. Be desirable not arrogant nor needy. (I like winners not whiners.)

The shoes in the video were a gift from an obscenely wealthy man. If I was only in it for the money I would not still be looking for a boyfriend. (I will not discount that dinner is fun when you fly there IT IS!!! But, it can be just as much fun to make it in the kitchen together.)

If you want to know if there is something between us – meet me in person. I will know in 5 seconds if you are compatible and so will you. In the extremely rare event that you and I meet and I am unable to speak it is because I am fighting the visual in my mind of you behind me and furniture floating around our knees as well as the urge to make it a reality.

BTW if I call you back that means I like you.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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