I’m looking for someone who may actually want to have a conversation about something other than sex for a bit then work from there. I believe in hard work and taking pride in what you do. Be honest with yourself in what you are looking for and don't bullshit your way thru life. I take care of myself and expect others to do the same. I’m one of those nasty non-smokers and have no desire to change or be with someone who smokes. I’m not sure what I hope to accomplish by being on this site, but I’d like to find someone who can hold a conversation, is fun to be with and is actually employed. My hope is to find someone who wants to be with me, even if only for the pleasure of my company; not because they need me to fix some part of their life that has been broken long before I came along.

My Ideal Person: Tall, clean, professional, hard working - I'm a sucker for a guy in uniform. I don't like drama, and if I meet up with someone they should be someone I'd have as a friend, not only as a lover. I'm not into bars, crowds or going out all the time. I'm more of a home-body, preferring to stay home and enjoy quiet times.

I guess if I could have my way I'd like a partner that could be there for the inconsequential banter of daily life, without actually being in my life and naturally, great sex. I'm not looking for multiple partners or to be bed hopping. Just want one that can be mine without the long, long term commitment. I guess you could say, in a jacked up kind of way, I want to have my cake and eat it too. Be there for me, I'll be there for you - sometimes to a fault and my own detriment - just don't expect me to re arrange my life for you. Once you have my loyalty, you'll have it, no questions asked.

Finally I work in the public safety arena so if you don't have a slightly warped sense of humor, we probably won't get along!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Styx, Little River Band, Sugerland, Today's Country

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I love touching and slowly waking a man up by exploring his
body at my own pace. I like to arouse a man from that sensual
part of his being that he's not aware of when he's
awake.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Threesomes

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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