To me, traveling means finding a stimulating companion and making plans as we go. I've always been good at letting the moment provide. Sexually, I'm looking to experiment with someone who doesn't mind taking things slow. For me a perfect date is one where we head out with a plan, but we go where the night takes us. The philosophy I live by is that you don't have to be loud and gregarious to be interesting. I get along best with people who can talk about something besides sex or sports. I'm not changing my life, I'm changing how I live it. I look forward to finding the right person; I know you're out there! If you contact me remember that I'm looking for a relationship, not just a one-night stand.