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First If you do not have pictures on your profile? and do not have some you can share please do not contact me. That is the first thing I am going to ask for. (I want to clarify face pictures. If your eyes and smile do not captivate me I can care less what your penis looks like or what it can do)

Second I am not into phone chatting and email sex crap it does not interest me at all...... I generally do not give out my phone number until I have met someone in person and I am sure I even want them to have it. I learned my lesson on that one.(Phone stalker)
I will ask to set up a first meeting in a public place for drinks or coffee.

Third: I do not set at the computer often for any length of time where chatting works for me. I set down check and answer a couple messages and get back to my grand sons. Then a couple hrs later I might set again for 5 to 10 minutes. I am happy to share my messenger information but it is unlikely you will ever catch me there unless we set a specific chatting time.

Fourth: I really would prefer just being able to set up a face to face meeting as soon as possible and just figure out if it is worth continuing. There is nothing more frustrating than exchanging weeks of messages only to meet in person and find there is no chemistry what so ever.

Lastly: I am Only looking for a good time for now.... Have enough baggage already. I still live with my husband........ He is my bestfriend but for private reasons our marriage is a sexless one. That will not change and at some point it may end the marriage but not the friendship. He and I are parents together and grandparents together and do share many of the same interests but we are not lovers.. I want a Lover.......Friends with benefits would be great. Ultimately it would be nice to have one great friend where sex is an added bonus. The idea of a series of one night stands is not appealing to me. (but.....I have one now and then) SO far finding that perfect situations has just not happened so I am still here looking.

My Ideal Person: It would be nice to have someone I could see often even if they are married. Though this is a site primarily focused on sex.. I would like to meet someone who is able to be a gentleman. Personality goes along way. I enjoy laughing..... so please be someone who likes to have fun in general. Be able to stimulate me mentally and emotionally not just physically. If you are a wam bam thank you mam kind of guy (cum easily)or have ED issues please be honest so it is not a surprise for me and come prepared with a plan B when we meet. There are many ways to achieve sexual pleasure. (I have a traveling "toy box if you are open minded to exploe) I want sex that can last for hrs... I am not a clit cummer so oral sex is not as appealing to me as something hard inside me working me over..... (oral with some fingers or a toy all good) To reiterate.... there are many ways to enjoy sexual pleasure and the main things I am not looking for is five minutes of sex with no foreplay and no after time. So if when you are done I am not ready to be have some other creative ways to make me smile. Have some stamina. (plan I do not want either of us to leave the encounter thinking wtf was that.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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