Hello....I am a divorced white woman looking to meet a straight, up down to earth, fun loving, honest black friend for a long term relationship. Don't hate me because I love black men. There are a lot of unhappy haters and even though I sympathize with your situation, don't take your hatred out on me!! For the fine brothas, I want a friendship first. I can't do a guy that I can't talk to. I am a Scorpio so I am very sexual with the right person. Just so you know...I don't do extreme bondage. I am very open minded and I can live with my hands being tied together but I will not allow myself to be put in a position that will not allow me freedom to move if I so choose. I am flexible and open to discussion on most topics. Please no playas or fakers!! I want a friend first and if it becomes more, then so be it!!Im a standard member so I can only send so many emails a day..also.....DO NOT SAY YOU ARE SINGLE WHEN YOU LIVE WITH SOMEONE!!! I need someone that I can call when the mood hits and they can cum and take care of what needs to be taken care of, or even better, i don't even have to call because he taking care of business so well that I don't even have to ask!! I am tired of being alone all the time so I am looking for someone to spend some time with....not every day or night, but it would be nice to find someone that can spend the night if he wants to and I can stay the night with him if i want to...

My Ideal Person: I am looking for someone that wants a little something different. I want a long term relationship without all the strings.... No one nighters. Someone that can handle great sex without becoming overly possessive. I am a bartender at a reggae club in Greensboro, so you have to be secure with yourself and your abilities to satisfy a woman. No DRAMA!!!!!