My name is Pam, I am, single- white -53 now AGE IS A STATE OF MIND!!AND JUST A NUMBER IT DOES NOT MAKE YOU YOUNGER OR OLDER IT IS HOW YOU VIEW YOURSELF... My hair is no longer long, I have brown Eyes,Depends on my mood's!as to weather they are darker or lighter brown. All my picture's are recent,,,,,So I would like a recent picture of you also,, will not think about meeting until I have at least seen what you look like,,,, Fair Enough? And I do not just want to meet and jump into bed. UNLESS it it mutual between us after we have gotten to know one another... Over dinner or a nice lounge that serves dinner and drink. I need to know the person is real, no head games, and need to know he is a clean person Drug Free And No STD's Period.. I love the outdoors,boating allot,I love to fish and dream of having a boat that sleeps a few people and to stay out in the boat for a couple weeks at a time. This is a dream of mine to live on a house boat that would be so cool. I am interested in finding a man that is wanting to have fun and great times together with a very cool woman! Anyone really interested may E_Mail me through Passion.com. ADD A PICTURE PLEASE... That is if you can. and I decide to email through a alternate email that will happen after I have gotten to chat with you on here a few times I will not get a email of a person that just has his dick on the very ___{first}__ picture I see it is one sure way of not getting a response from me. It would be nice to be able to have a face picture of you first, then later down the road that is if I decide to go further and allow you to send me a few more revealing pictures that will also be up to me if I want to go that rout or not!It helps me to see whom I am talking to.!!Thank You ... Give me a chance you will not be sorry. I know! Because I know me and I know I am a Good Woman in many way's. A Bit crazy in a good way. I love to laugh and make all around me laugh.And just have a great time laughing it is so much fun plus it helps you to live longer too one great reason to meet me.. LOL P.S If you send me mail through Passion.com, And I do not respond that is just my way of letting you know I am not {{{interested}}}.,!!!!! If I do respond then it means yes I am interested, And we can chat on here until I feel safe enough to start chatting on another Instant Messenger Thanks and do not take it too badly if I do not reply Back!! Any Married Men wanting to play we may come to some kind of understanding because as a rule I do not get involved with married men there can be a exception to my rule But you will have to talk to me about your situation to find out if there would be one or not ok Deal? Very Good Then moving on now.. you may look me up here I also have to explain why I have disappeared from the face of Passion.com LOL Due To medical problems one after another I have not been well for about 3 years and as a derivative of that not well and sick means that I have had allot of things happen to me that most normal people do not have happen to them To Begin with I have a terrible Neck And Back, I have degenerative Disc disease and it has gotten me deon to the point that I will soon be needing a surgery that will make me stiff but that will be a blessing for me as I am in pain all day long when I get up I must take my pain meads and then wait till they kick in to Begin my day and be able to start moving good. SO this is not good for me But I am still alive and still have needs and hope that a man out there could understand these things I am going through. Well I also have had some setbacks as far as recovery goes I fell last october and broke m y right ankle, and that has begun the downfall for a whole year and and while in the hospital recuperating I caught pneumonia and that turned into MRSA pneumonia so if any one here that does not know what that is as I never knew till I got it well they was almost picking out a casket for me for XMas and not presents UGGGGGGGG, So then after my 2 month fight for my life I had surgery on my right shoulder since from the fall when I broke my ankle it tore up my shoulder. Well after the shoulder surg I was on my way to better health and feeling allot better I fell over a child gate at my daughters house while taking care of her kids, Then I found out that fall caused all my discs in my back to get way worse, I fell again and broke my foot and also ruined my shoulder surgery , This is where I am at now going to go next week to see a surgeon that specializes in intricate surgery's such as mine. Ok Until I have this one and get my foot fixed too from the final fall I will need a few month time to recover so this is when I can meet a few people and also get to know a few people too but till I get fixed it will hurt me to have sex if I am not careful But if the man could help me out there and do most the work it will help out in more ways than one I have now went totally 3 years with out any sex so if anyone knows how that feels you know where I am at now. I will someday be back to being able to do allot more than I can now But I still have my neck and back problems I will need someone that can understand how to help out and not expect me to be superwoman like I used to be before all this happened to me anyone on here that knew me before all this happened to me knows I was allot of fun to be around well I am still allot of fun to be around just not able to do allot till I am fixed some So if there is any man out there that also can deal wit my problems also a few extra lbs on me than before as I have had tons of steroid shots and anyone knows they cause weight gain and it does not mean I am a lazy fat woman just a woman with allot of problems. I am trying my hardest to loose the weight but it is still so very hard to even be able to try to exercise I am not just saying this to get a man to do all the work lol I wish I could do more now but just not possible. I am sure by putting this out three that no one will answer my emails but I am being honest and am sorry if this makes me loose any chances of finding a relationship that will work for me. I could be wrong maybe someone is out there that can even turn out to be a partner for me and I can help out in other ways if you know what I mean?? PLEASE SEND A PHOTO OF YOUR FACE OR I WILL NOT REPLY BACK AT ALL, Unless you say you can get me a picture on here OK?? (((Sorry))) about repeating my words but it looks like I have to,, Because I Get Email's with no picture's attached,, And right now I I am not a paying member I can not view your picture's on your profile if you have them there. And Most picture's on there are of your dick only, LMAO So if I met you in person, I would have to say ok Drop The Pants So I can see who You ARE LMAO But TOOOOOOOO TRUE So a face shot is required THAT IS A MUST So Sorry about that. As I said above. But if there is a reason due to your work, Just explain that to me And we go from there,... I AM JUST TRYING TO FILTER OUT THE RUDE MEN AND THE ONE'S THAT treat women like trash we are not discardable. Tks Pam BTW I had my back surg and got my right shoulder fixed again 3rd times a charm lol. So I am trying to think about getting back out and meet some of yu guys.

My Ideal Person: A man or a couple, or group of sexy people wanting to just have great sex,, I really want to find the perfect playmate male near me!!! I need a Real nice Man that can have a honest relationship with me,ALSO I AM VERY CLEAN!! I would love to find someone that lives in my area, But can not always do that!! After getting to know the man, would be nice to be able to have a great sexual relationship,, is hard to find a good man, Clean, and Drug Free And also one that can deal with a woman with a little extra meat on her bones that is not the way I usually am not a fattie but not a skinny Minne either not now I feel so bad about this too, But life is not made for us to all be superficial, I need someone to be honest with me and get to know me for who I am want to be comfortable with the person before going further!! Do not think that is too much to ask. If you think you fit the type man I am looking for please send me a pic along with your message I will send pic's also! And please no men that are under 28 years old I am willing to try if you are to see if it will lead to us both having a good time together !! Really am wanting to have some fun and meet people that are fun to be with and want to enjoy life to the fullest!! In every way!! ALSO it would be nice if once we met we could also do some other things together besides just sex, Do not get me wrong I love it!!!!!! But there are other thing's I like to do,,,,Then after doing fun thing,s then the sex can come into play.... and lot's of it > I just want to enjoy my sexuality as it is at the best ever... I have always loved sex,,,But it is hard to find a man that can take care me .... And I want them taken care of as well... As I know I can take care of his needs very well... I am NOT a one night stand So forget it if that is your intentions!!!!!! Do want someday to have a nice steady relationship so we both can share in all the pleasures of sex in all ways,,, one that will fulfill both our needs.And others as well when we may play with a couple or group... If that happens...

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Making love in the outdoors maybe under a waterfalls or
on the beach at night in front of a roaring fire! lighting
up all to see! And in front of the fireplace in the winter
with a glass or so of wine and my man next to me all warm and
getting hot together in all ways! Also with candles lit
everyplace in room in a hot tub with a romantic man with me
in the tub!! Naked of course..

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere, hell any place is good love all kinds of places to be making
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What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Leather, Just Good old fashioned hard long deep fuck!!

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
God there is not just one man there are many and there eyes
and mouths and shapes of their body gleaming with oil almost
naked to be able to see every muscle and what ever the eyes
float to looking at that hunk of man.. The scent of a mans
cologne makes me crazy. So many of these men could have me
anytime they would want me.Mostly movie stars But that
is the only place to find what I am looking for lol.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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