Married woman, hovering on the precipice of 50, wanting and deserving so much more than what she has settled for...my husband became my roomate over a decade ago and i wish to spark what smolders within. I am NOT looking for monster cocks, one night stands, or marriage. I AM looking for friendship,intimacy,trust,and a long term affair. Would very much appreciate someone in a similar situation who wishes to enjoy life once again and rediscover the joy and passion that once existed...although I won't rule out someone single as they have much more freedom to pursue common interests. Discretion is required as is a great sense of humor and a sex drive to match my own.

If you do not have the time, the ability to trust, or are too guarded to become a friend and are only wanting sex when the wife is out of town, please do not respond...I demand and deserve so much more attention than just that, and honestly...so do you! A word to married men: we all have our reasons for being here, I certainly am no judge or jury. I ask only that you be clear in your decision to step outside your marriage as I have no desire to get tangled up in your guilt...

I am seeking a true friend and fabulous fuck buddy who will make me a priority within existing parameters and expects the same in return. I seek a friendship based on strong sexual desire, but also wish to enjoy the tease, the interaction, and the dance that lover's do...I will work hard to keep us fresh and exciting and expect the same enthusiasm from you... I have no "type" of man that I prefer, but have noticed that men my age or older tend to look and act so tired. I am full of life, have held up well, and want to participate in life... not just watch it pass me by!

An addendum: Superficial, yes..but important to me!
There is an abundance of short men with big egos on this site! I am 5'8", love to wear heels..most especially with dresses and lingerie...please be tall enough so that i can indulge my passion without feeling like a moose!!!! ie: I like my lover bigger and taller than I am... if I can't fit into your pants, you're not getting into mine!!!! :

Another addendum: This is not my first dog and pony show! (Which for all you kooks out there is not meant to imply that I enjoy animals!!!!!!) If I had a dollar for every traveling businessman who tells me he is in town "quite often" I would be a rich woman! Please be honest about your availability, and your intent and we can go from there...or not!

UPDATE: WELL...fifty is here, and it looks and feels really good on me! My journey which began over two years ago has been both intriguing and very trying at times, yet has turned out to be the best thing I have done for myself in quite a long time. This bizarre place and those that I have met, believe it or not, have been key in bringing me back to life and pleasure. I now look forward to, instead of dread...what comes in the next fifty!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I live in the real world. Never liked cartoons as a kid...more
fascinated with why people do the things they do. Not judgemental,
just intrigued. I have learned that with the right partner,
you can explore what intrigues you sexually..without
guilt or angst or worry. THAT indeed, is a fantasy cum true!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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