i am a submissive bbw who is self assured but still not afraid to ask for what i want and need in the bedroom ..im at a point in my life where sex is very important to me . i am looking for a discrete relationship for fun and friendship. nothing binding,but a mutual understanding of what is wanted. always looking for something new and exciting and love to experiment......ive been on here for some time now and have met some great people..ive had my heart broken a time or two but that seems to be just human nature no matter how hard one tries to not get attached. i cant seem to do the "no strings attached" im one who thinks what happens in the bedroom creates strings, its a given, i'm not built that way it seems..
i like to push my Lover to His limits..of His imagination..to try things He may never have thought of before or hasnt had the right partner for..within reason of course

My Ideal Person: To start i will say a few things..first, and the most important thing is that we be friends first before anything else..if you truly dont like me then there's really no point...next.. i wont entertain in my home..so don't ask me..i wont pay for the room nor will i pay for sex..so, again..don't ask..
please don't quote me in your email,
go ahead and tell me what You're thinking in Your own words, i don't need to hear what You'll do to me sexually , ive heard it all before..be original and spark my interest with something other then the size of Your cock or how well You eat pussy..sorry if that sounds harsh..but it is what it is..and if You've come this far..read on......
i'm not very interested in how a Man looks or body type but His personality, how We/we interact with each other, can You make me laugh, can You hold my interest,can You talk to me about things other then sex, how well endowed You are and what Your going to do to me, obviously We/we are here for sex Right? so that's a given.
personal hygiene is a must.i love the midwest and have lived here always, but please don't come to meet me like You just came home from work ,unshaven, dirt under Your nails and a can of chew in Your back pocket.. if You can't take the time to present Your self or bother to clean up , what does that say about Your attention in the bedroom...you only get one chance to make a first impression..,He also needs to be a attentive lover, Someone who knows how to please a women and puts her needs above His.Someone who is also not afraid to ask for what He wants and perhaps in time takes what He wants..i love to kiss and be kissed deeply, its part of my oral fetish i have.. also i love to receive oral and give in return. im the boss at my job and give orders all day for that reason i tend to be a submissive but still out spoken in what i like..if You're looking for just a quick roll in the hay only interested in getting Yourself pleased ....don't bother to contact me...im looking for Someone who can last and in turn make it last for me ..no quickies, please don't fall asleep on me,or turn on the tv,..im not Your wife..
one of the things i think i miss is touching..and being touched, lying in bed after..touching and talking...kissing and holding each other...please think this through ... if guilt is going to be an issue ..maybe cyber sex is best for You...if You want a lover then treat me like a lover..the later is preferred..body type is also not much of an issue...but if you're a big man...as in heavy..please be able to move and move me..though I'm a bbw..I'm fit and exercise daily..i expect my lover to be also..i like long sessions as i tend to be insatiable..nothing worse then a naked women lying next to You and You don't know what to do with her...i like being a play thing for Your pleasure as well as mine..if You need to rest between...the options are endless..

.....P.S.... a must for me is that We/we are friends first, lovers later...
Respectfully,
~cha~

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
kid rock..any southern fried rock..bob seger

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
meeting someone i have only chatted with at a hotel...and
then not seeing them..letting them blindfold me and let
them decide when they will allow me to see them.....

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
not so much having sex..but johnny depp has the sexiest
hands i have ever seen !!!!!!!!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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