****UPDATE**** 2/18/08
Since I created this profile, I have acquired a few consistant FWB, so I'm not actively looking anymore at this point. At first I was going to keep my account active just in case, but I don't need the expense right now, so I'm going back to just a standard membership for the time being.

Again, thanks for your interest in missle defense. Have a nice day.

**Profile updated 2.18.08**

Ok, so here's my story... I just recently got divorced. We were married for nearly 4 years, together for 7 and the main reason we split is because we hardly ever had sex and it just wasn't working for me. So I'm looking for a low-stress friend with benefits who has a reasonable amount of time available for getting together a couple of times a week.

What can I tell you about me? I believe that you have to do what you love in life and I'm lucky enough to work in a field that has meaning beyond making money. I grew up on the East Coast, went to college in the midwest, lived in NYC for a couple of years and have been in Colorado Springs for 9 years. One of my greatest passions in life is dancing... right now, that primarily takes the form of belly dancing. I like to go out and dance, but I don't need someone to dance with... I am perfectly happy on the dance floor by myself, in fact, I get a little annoyed when a guy gets all grabby on me while I'm trying to dance. With gorgeous women, it's another story; I love dorking out or getting all bump & grindy with another girl on the dance floor. It's a double standard, I know.

I am extremely socially liberal. I thrive on interesting conversation and I like to learn new things and having new experiences. I am a fairly straightforward and honest person. I have no patience for bullshit or stupid games. I have been called a firecracker and a handfull, so I am definitely not for the faint of heart.

My Ideal Person: My main criteria is that there has to be chemistry, which is all but impossible to determine online, so I'm not opposed to meeting in person, but I make no promises until I can tell if there's chemistry. I'm not really interested in one night stands.

While I know that we all have our insecurities, I am really only interested in meeting someone who has self-confidence and is not needy. Intelligence and a quick witted/sarcastic sense of humor are big turn ons. I've spent a lot of my adult life going dutch, so, shallow as it may sound, I'd prefer someone who will pick up the tab for dinner, drinks, etc. without a second thought. You must be able to handle a strong, independent woman who likes to play with the power differential. Sometimes I want to be in charge and other times, I want to be shown who's boss. Ok, I'm sorry, it's cracking me up that I'm writing this. I can't handle people who take themselves too seriously.

I am an extremely busy person so location/distance is pretty important. I live in the downtown area and I don't like having to go east of Union or north of Garden of the Gods to hang out.

Oh yeah, and if you want to contact me, don't just send me a picture of your cock. I had that happen several times in the first 24-hours after signing up for this site and it sort of repulses me. I relish the art of seduction, so cutting right to the chase like that won't get you anywhere but deleted.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Phish,

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
An airplane, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, Public places, biting

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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