My new friend is bi-curious we are looking for young females or couples to join us 01/24/2012 (Standard Membership can Contacts me) I live in Anchorage I am a single W/M.... mature (not old), clean, few bad habits, seeking someone to teach, but open to a LTR with the right one (but a good friend is also great to have)...Open minded, creative and stern at times. I have been a Dom for 7 years, I am looking for women who are curious about being a submissive.

The ideal partner for me is one who is clean of body, yet dirty of mind, D/D free, has a functioning brain and knows how to use it.. A sense of humor is very important to me, and the ability to see humor in most things is a must.. I am not cruel, but stern and loving, with a wicked sense of humor and am more or less "vanilla" in public, but in private, behind closed doors and between us...I am your Sir. Sometimes our play will take place outside the bedroom but that will be based on what you are curious about.

While I am a Dominant man, I am NOT looking for someone to "abuse" under the guise of D/s BDSM..Far from it..I am looking for a woman to "explore her limits" with. Yes I am a Dominant male and that doesn't mean I will make you a door mat, or a punching bag or abuse you in any way....rather you will be exhaulted and enjoyed, shown things about yourself and taken places that you never thought you would experience physically, emotionally and mentally...

I expect a lot from my sub and I give alot in return. Honesty and trust are the most important aspect of any relationship, especially so with one of this type. Respect will be expected but only after it is earned by both "sides"..Being a Dom is NOT an excuse to be rude, obnoxious or otherwise nasty to others...Common courtesy and being civil is something that is lacking in the D/s-BDSM community and that is a sad thing...

Trust is very important to me. I have my own place and I am a "profesional"... It can be called a wonderful life for the most part.

Age is a possible factor, please no one over 30. Race and all that are unimportant to me. I am a private person, not much into the "night life".

If you would like to find out more, by all means drop me a not. Hope to hear from you soon...

My Ideal Person: I'm looking for a charming young woman, 20 to 30 (someone whom the vicissitudes of life have not yet made jaded), on whom to lavish attention and affection.

I work pretty hard, make a bundle of money, live a quiet and unassuming life during the week, have my own avocations, and don't really have time or emotional bandwidth for a stable relationship with a woman my own age: I'm typically available weekends evenings only, and then's when I like to go out and do something cool. I want to have a reason to dress up, again.

It would make me happy to take a lovely young lady sub out for a nice dinner (champagne is a must!) and the theatre or the opera, art shows, to learn a new dance, or whatever shows up on the radar screen: to do many things maybe you've never had the opportunity to experience before, but would like to, and I would enjoy seeing my old things anew, through your eyes.

I'd take joy in buying you a make-over and seeing you flower into a princess - at least for a night - and going shopping for a bit, buying you some pretty things to wear for my delight. We could share a masseuse and a steam.

I'd like to cuddle up after an intoxicating meal, over a vintage Porto or fine aperitif, and chat about anything and everything (and if you listen well, I can promise you you'll learn a lot about what matters most).

Come to me as you are, honestly, it doesn't matter much what your background is: the only thing I expect from you would be to show sweet appreciation for me, any true affection you might come to feel, and I would demand kindness to those less fortunate than you (like waiters - I _hate_ girls who treat staff snidely) - and to learn to have classy, sedate fun.

If we like each other, over the winter, maybe I would whisk you away for a long weekend, to get away from the chilly weather to a tropical zone. That would make me happy.

About me: I'm pretty normal looking, tall, blue-eyed, blondish....not the prettiest boy ever but tolerable - a couple extra pounds around the middle might be my worst fault (although certainly not obese or even much of a 'gut'. I dress very well, certainly, and am adequately smart and insightful (for instance, I am well aware of my own inclinations in writing this ad - I just don't care . You could definitely take me home to mom - but I don't really want to meet your parents, I'd rather this be about us - mostly you - for the while we have.

I look forward to hearing from you

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Food Play, Blindfolds, Leather

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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