I am a short, blond, somewhat petite, caring, fun loving, honest person who is raising three children alone. I am into ONLY SINGLE STRAIGHT MEN. NO women/couple/married men need apply. I enjoy many things in life, some of which are walks in the woods, watching the sunlight reflect off of water, staring at clouds, birds singing, children playing, etc. I'd love to go white water rafting, scuba diving, snorkeling, surfing, anything on the water really. The ocean is amazing. I've only seen in once but am planning on going back soon. There are many other things I want to try, if you'd like to know send me a message and I will tell you. Money is not an issue for me as far as wanting a lot of it. I think a person only needs enough to survive and take care of the basics in life. Anything more than that is just "fluff". I feel that if two people care for each other and are meant to be together, what they do for a living shouldn't matter. It shouldn't matter if you are poor or rich, as long as you have each other that should be enough. I realize we all need money to survive, but it should not be what defines a person or a relationship. I do not like liars, deceivers, or head games. I am 100% honest with everyone I know, but that sometimes means I get hurt in the end. I have many friends on here who can tell you what type of person I am better than me. If you would like to know more, just start chatting. That is always the best way to get to know somebody.

My Ideal Person: First, let me say I am NOT into women, couples, or married men. If you are any of these, thank you for reading my profile but you are wasting your time in asking me for a relationship/meeting. I am NOT interested in that. ***UPDATE 4/1/12 - I apparently have to clarify the previous sentence. I am NOT NOT NOT into hook ups with strangers, one night stands, booty calls, or sex with strangers. If I am not in a relationship with you I will not be having sex with you. Period. So please don't ask.*** I'm looking for a man who is patient, caring, understanding, loves kids...as I have 3...doesn't play head games, is mature, non-abusive, and would want to be friends as well as maybe something more. I want a painter, lover, companion. Someone who is fun, inspires me to be a better person as well as lets me inspire him. If you think this is you, send me a message and we can discuss things more. Just so you know, I am not on this site as much as I used to be. I have a full time job as well as kids to raise, so if I don't respond right away, it's probably because I haven't seen your email yet. If I'm interested I will respond when I see it though.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Bon Jovi, Disturbed, Korn, Nickleback, Kiss, Metallica, Skid
Row, Def Lepard, etc...

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
A date takes me to a private picnice on a beach at night, and
after eating, we take a nice dip in the water. Once we are
done "swimming", we come back to the beach to
dry off near a fire, where we spend the rest of the night making
love. Either that, or just being held all night. It doesn't
take much to make me happy, really. Just a caring man.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Light Bondage, Role Playing, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Keanu Reeves, Val Kilmer, Nicholas Cage......yeah. Yummy!
lol

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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