NOT LOOKING RIGHT NOW.
I would like to find a like soul that wants to meet at least a few times a month and realizes that contact as friends a few times a week only makes the whole thing better. If you don't have the time or the interest in either of those things, please don't contact me in the first place. You should also understand that I like variety and you would NOT be my only lover, and I certainly wouldn't want to be your only either. Does that mean I want us both to fuck anything that comes our way? No of course not...but I do want both of us to find it exciting to have other partners.
Update August 11, 2011. I am once again looking, but very particular. I have a regular lover that also happens to be the best connection sexually I've ever had, and I hope one day to find that perfect chemistry with another. I don't want to hook up with just anyone in that search. I will also tell you upfront that finding a new lover or three is just not a top priority at the moment, I am not actively searching but rather seeing what comes my way.

NSA sex is great, but if you are the kind of guy I'll only hear from when your cock needs servicing, please DONT contact me in the first place. I expect you to also know how to really be a friend as well as a lover.

PLEASE read my profile CAREFULLY so you can get an idea of what it is I'd like to find. Any requests for quick hook-ups or random meetings will be ignored! I am married, and have a FWB I see weekly. On occasion I'll try out someone new. The husband has no idea but my regular friend has no problem sharing me.

I am a married PLUS SIZE (size 16) stay at home mom. I like to flirt and would like to feel desirable and appreciated, but not strictly from a sexual standpoint. I want to find a deeper connection with a potential lover than simply being a warm body. There has to be mutual attraction and trust there, and a relationship as friends also. I am a very passionate and responsive lover, and want the same. Lots of kissing, foreplay, and feedback.
I am an honest, upfront and reliable person and I expect the same. I have actually met people on here, but please be who you say you are. I have had a few good experiences, but most did not work.
I have a very open attitude towards sex, I am all about what feels good and gets us both off, including having other partners. I find it especially attractive when a lover gets turned on at the notion of me getting fucked, regardless of whether they are the ones doing the fucking. I have gotten in the habit of taking pictures with new lovers and sharing with my other lovers, as a turn on for us both
Now, some turnoffs: smoking, heavy drinking, facial hair (although a closely trimmed goatee ABSOLUTELY works on some guys).
Any e-mail without a face pic will not be responded to...

My Ideal Person: I am only interested in single clean shaven men that can host, that live NEAR me (within 30 min drive).
I don't expect to be your only lover, nor do I want to be. You have a place to host, and are eager to have me there. I am even able to get away for overnights at times.
I want reliable and exciting partners I can depend on to give me the escape I need without trying to be possessive or jealous. You don't have to look like a movie star, but you DO have to fascinate me. For me sexual attraction begins in the mind, with conversation via chat first. I am in NO rush to meet someone new, and you shouldn't be either. If you don't have the time or the desire to get to know me, do us both a favor and move on to the next profile. You should also have an adventurous attitude towards sex, the former BF and I had a few 3somes, both FMF and MFM, and we both enjoyed the experience immensely.

Someone who will be interested in how I am doing on a daily basis, who doesn't just think of me when he wants to fuck. I would like someone in their 30's or 40's (or I'll consider a MATURE late 20's guy) who is also discreet, trustworthy, honest...someone I could consider a real friend.
Safe sex is a must, I am D/D free and want to stay that way.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I realized my favorite, being the center of attention with
two men...and would like to repeat it

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A store dressing room, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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