I would like to say, up front, that I'm looking for a long term relationship. The one night stands lack too much. I want more. I want intimacy, someone to share the world with, and travel with. Sex is very important to me, and we all know, if we aren't physically attracted to one another then the relationship will not go far, or won't last. There are too many things in this world that aren't fun if you're all alone.... movies, dancing, chocolate, rasberries, lace stockings.... Christmas... haunted houses, concerts, shopping (with you in the basket of course...) late night drives.... thunderstorms.. the snow.... fireplaces, carnival rides..... I also enjoy a good game of football.... (a favorite of mine.... hehehe to the tune of Jingle Bells... Jingle Bells, Cowboys smell New England all the way, Vikings lost, GreenBay sucks and the Giants are just gay Hey !

Now that I made myself laugh.... I hope you have a good sence of humor yourself. Your income does not judge your worth, nor do your belongings. I am open to meeting a man who will give me the intimacy and sex that I crave without being selfish and uncaring. I have my own home, my own car and have been single for more than 9 years now. I can more than take care of myself and my children and have done a good job thus far. Having money and being rich is in no way required in order to contact me or meet me if I like what I see. I do work long hours, can take off work whenever I like. I am open to single fathers as I have 3 daughters, 2 of which live with me all the time. I've just moved here from another state and have no ex boyfriends or lovers within an 800 mile radius hehehe... I like to travel, listen to music (Blue October, Bullet for my Valentine, 3 doors down, Puddle of Mudd are a few of my favorites.) I love action movies, Nicholas Cage, Vin Desiel and Sean Connery are amazing !!! Like to fish, go camping. (No hunters please) in the bedroom, I like just about everything. I am not into pain at all, big fat ZERO, I don't like pain...it hurts me. Other than that, everything else is negotiable. I love anal, love fingers, kissing and going down on a man is probably my absolute #1 favorite of all time. I like to be in control a bit more than half the time, I love lace and stockings, high heels, lipstick and black leather, when I'm in that mood. My moods for sex are constantly changing on a daily basis. One day I love slow and gentle, maybe the next day a bit rough, and I enjoy alot of verbalization.. I want to hear you moan, I want you to talk dirty and tell me what you want, I may want you to strip in front of me, bend over my lap with your cock between my bare thighs while I spank you. (not into pain...neither giving or receiving...but done right, I do like the sound....) I would love to blindfold you or tie you up while I feed you strawberries and wine from my lips then go down on you.... I like dancing in the dark, completely naked, I enjoy planning sex scenerios... leaving naughty messages, notes with instructions for you to follow.. sex in limos.. sex outdoors in the rain (only if no one could possibly catch us... I love a wide range of different things. I take great pleasure in making you think about me all day at work, how great sex was last night... making you help out in the planning of a scenerio... and in my other life.... you have to love kids, and weiner dogs... I'm not looking for a relationship based completely on sex. I want someone to share more than just sex with and I want to include my kids in the concerts, movies and other plans for road trips or whatever. I'm not interested if you're an alcholic and feel the need to drink on a daily basis. Body size is totally negotiable.... If the relationship progresses, I would not be totally opposed to swinging if that was your greatest desire. I have come to learn that few things provide the intimacy that comes from sharing a woman with another man. To take turns going down on her, turning your face towards mine to lick her, off my lips is sweet !
My requirements are, #1 above all else, that you tell me the truth no matter how ulgy it may be. I am suprizingly understanding, who knows, I might like it myself... don't ever lie to me, and I won't lie to you. #2 Please be considerate of my time and effort. Don't leave me hanging all day after I've made plans and taken off work. #3. Be yourself and be comfortable in who you are. Wouldn't you rather me take you the way you really are, instead of what you pretend to be ? I am non judgemental and want to get to know the real you #4 You must love lots of sex #5 you have to be able to trust me, without hesitation, totally and completely. ( goes along with the don't lie to me... please refer back to # 1 ) I am not a bitch, nor a snob. I have a wonderful life and I'm ready to share it with someone...
If you are not completely scared to death with all of this.... and think you have the courage to hold up to my requirements.... send me an email...

My Ideal Person: My ideal man, would be physically attracted to me, and me to him... a wonderful match in and out of the bedroom. Love to explore, try new and different things, love suprizes and spontaneous adventures. Must love children as I have 3 teenage daughters. Must love animals, as I am not giving them up either.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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