Hi! Im Mindas, 29/M, and Im Em, 21/f. Welcome to the Wovles_n_kitties Q&A! We took the questions off of the writing ideas and we will both kinda give our feedback on whats there, and hopefully it will give everyone a better idea of what we like and are into. \\\***** NEW UPDATE: MUST be D/D free! Thought that was just common sense, but I guess I should add that in. We are D/D free and plan to STAY that way! ****** 1. Most of our friends would say that as a couple we are (dominant/easy-going/shy/other). Wolves says: I think that we are both pretty easy going. We get along with just about anyone and have a wide enough range of interests that we can usually find some kind of common ground. We dont get out as much as I would like, but when we do its always relaxed and everyone has fun. kitties says: I get alot of people saying that we are a cute couple, and I would have to agree! We are pretty easy going. We like to watch movies, eat pizza, laugh and hang out. 2. When it comes to physical health, we exercise about (5 to 7, 3 or 4, 1 or 2) times per week (or never), and expect our sex partners to be at about the same fitness level. Wolves says: We are both in decent shape. I lift weights 3 or 4 times a week and have been studying martial arts for a very long time. I definitely expect people that are interested in us to have some degree of fitness. Im not expecting everyone who messages us to be super-models, but still... being overweight is a definite turn-off for me. Not to mention, if people arent in shape, how are you going to keep up with us!! hehe kitties says: I work out a couple times a week. Right now I dont have a routine, but we are getting an Eliptical Rider soon and I plan on using that thing until the pedals fall off! Ive been studying martial arts also and really like to wrestle and play like tiger cubs! I think being in shape is very important, for any part of your life, really. 3. We (like/dislike) the bar scene. We prefer (lots of partying/not to party) when we’re involved in sexual encounters. Wolves says: Im not real fond of the bar scene. Ive seen too much drama unfold and I dont smoke. I hate coming home smelling like an ashtray.... Clubs on the other hand are alot of fun. I love music and the overall energy that you get there. Not adverse to drinking a little, but I prefer to remember what happened the next morning, you know? Going out for coffee is always a good thing. kitties says: I grew up in the mountains in secluded farmlands so I never much got to try out bars or clubs. Out of the two, I would probably go to the clubs. I would probably want to go to the clubs to watch people dance and hopefully learn more about dancing. 4. We like our partners to (tell us what to do/follow our lead) in the bedroom. Wolves says: I tend to be a bit more dominant as a general rule, but at the same time, there really has to be a level of communication and cooperation when it comes to sex. I dont like people that cant be open about what they like to do and feel. The way I see it is that when youre not honest and open, youre robbing yourself of a good time and youre also detracting from the enjoyment that others will get out of it also. So blurt it out! The worst that can happen is a person saying no. Or saying that your fetish is a little wierd. It takes all kinds of kink to make the world turn though! kitties says: Im more of the subby when it comes to any part of sexual play...well... in about anything really. I love to please and make people smile, and so most the time is am constantly trying to find out what the other wants. I find it hard and...unnatural? For me to take a more dominate role. But at the same time I want things as well and will gladly communicate my thoughts, feelings, and ideas. 5. We love sex, but we’re (not/just as) interested in building enduring relationships. Wolves says: As much as I like sex, if there is no personality there, Im unlikely to be very interested. Ideally, I would want to chat some, get to know the people involved, meet in a nuetral zone, see if everyone clicks, and go from there. We are poly, yes, but even so, we arent actively looking to really 'add' any to the puzzle as far as a long term relationship is concerned. Still, friendship, or at least a warm acquantance-ship (is that even a word? haha) is preffered. kitties: Sex is fun and it makes everyone smile, but i am looking more to make friends to hang out with, go to parks, clubs, zoo, musiums and other things as friends. I dont want sex to be the main focus of some of our get togethers. I am a very playful, almost -like and like a i like to go out and have adventures. 6. In the bedroom, we tend to like (traditional, straight forward/kinky, experimental/other) sex. Wolves says: For me, sex is about exploring a person on multiple levels. There is the obvious physical level, but there are other subtle mental and emotional levels. I think that our sexual style reflects this. We utilize alot of variety in technique, mood, scene, and so forth. Fundamentally, we are a D/s couple. Sometimes there is alot of kink that comes along with that and we are no exception. Bondage, discipline, roleplaying, lots of foreplay, pushing boundaries, all manner of play. We share our more 'traditional' modes as well. Afterall, even kink gets old if its the same thing over and over. kitties: I am still pretty new to alot of things, and just as i like to go out to new places with friends I also crave to learn new things when it comes to pleaseing people. Learning is an important part in a relationship or even when just haveing fun with friends, it helps you understand the other person and it makes for more fun and excitment 7. Some of our favorite activities/positions in the bedroom are... Wolves says: So much to choose from! If I had to pin down a couple favorite activities... I really like bondage. I really like discipline. Oral sex (giving moreso than recieving) ranks up there pretty high as well. I like to take in the aesthetics of the moment. The sights, the smells, the sounds... I find it particularly hot when a girl is masturbating during the encounter. As far as positions, we are both pretty flexible (lots of martial arts) and we have positions I dont even think they have names for! I really like doggy-style, girl-on-top, and standing positions. There is another position, the Stance position, thats kinda hard to explain with words.... haha kitties: Most the time we dont really plan activities or scenes we kind of let the energy take us to where ever we end up. We often times find our selves trying out many different things and each night is never the same as the last. We like to change things up, explore different ideas, and work together in makeing sure that both ends up with something wonderful at the end. I personaly enjoy haveing some music going, or scent candles so that the room has light but not blinding and uncomfortable. 8. One-on-one sex doesn't interest us much. We prefer (threesomes/swapping/orgies/other). Wolves says: Really, its anything goes here. I dont have a preference per se, however, I will not send her (kitties) out by herself, nor will she be anywhere that I am not within listening distance. Im not saying that she isnt allowed to do her own thing, just that I will need to be in the general vicinity. This is NOT a jealousy thing, but it very much is a safety thing. Call me overprotective. We play rough sometimes, and both of us have agreed that this is the best way to ensure that everything goes smoothly and safely. Threesomes, foursomes, moresomes are a bit more what we are looking for. kitties: I couldnt really say as I have only been in a threesome at least twice. I have had some gang bang fantasies.... but i couldnt say what interests me or not until after i have given them a try. No point in judging something if you have never even tried it!! So i would say i would be willing to try most anything at the moment 9. We’re (seldom/always) willing to try some light bondage or blindfolds Wolves says: Very experienced in all manner of bondage, shibari, blindfolds, discipline, spanking, caning, deprivation, blah blah blah... if its kinky and its out there, chances are we have at least tried it! If, by chance, there is something we HAVENT tried, I am quite sure we would both be willing to give it a whirl. kitties: I can deffinatly say there is no need to "Try" anything in this field! It is something we do quite often during our plays. I love being tied up! I must say im not to fond of hand cuffs as they are all metal and tacky, anything really to do with metal dosnt interest me, But cloth, leather, all natural type materials that add an artistic look to the bondage work always makes me happy, especialy if there is a camera to take lots of pictures as i love haveing my picture taken! Im also a big fan of knife play!! And love collars! \\\**** Hey! Give us some feedback on the profile! Is there something we left out? Things we should add it? We want to know. Thanks! **** \\\****The digicam has been hard at work! Some pics will be forthcoming within the next few days!****

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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