I have recently found that one night stands leave you wanting more and no one there to give it to you. You better be nice and respectful. I would like to meet someone who isn't hung up on whether or not the friendship is going somewhere. If it does bloom into something I am all for it. No married men, no men with girlfriends already and no men who have NO idea what they want in their lives. I am searching for someone who is quick witted and very intelligent. I want something real. I have found that most of the men on here don't understand what an alternative lifestyle means and they certainly don't know how to take care of someone that will submit to them, so I won't submit, you take me as I am; fun, exciting and easy-going. I am a curvy volupous woman who definately knows how to have a good time in and out of the bedroom. I want someone that will come over engage in some fabulous erotic sex and then still be interested in hanging out at the park, watching a movie, and/or going out on the town.

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who isn't a flake. Someone who doesn't mind telling a woman they like them. I am extremely partial to Europeans, men with longer hair, intellectuals, earthy people and someone who understands the intricacies of a "real" woman.