I'm looking for a long lasting relationship. An odd place to search maybe. But the most important ingrediant to me...and is all too often lacking...is compatible sexual energy. So here is all about me...: Soooo...if you're still here…what I offer is worth it. If I do say so myself. :-) But 1st off…I have a beautiful 3 year old …whom I share. She is already a wonderful little person. And…for better or worse…she has my sense of humour flair for the dramatic… Having another is extremely important with my future soul mate (yes I believe they exist…soul mates…not …umm yes… exist… I figured out how to make one! :-P ). So this may scare many of you lovely ladies away. Who am I? When you peel back the layers of this onion…what do you find? Once you get past the flaky, brittle exterior… (not that I’m flaky…or brittle…quite the opposite in fact…). ..I’ll bring you to tears…(of joy I hope…not because I irritate you…hmm…this isn’t working). I guess I could be described as 1/4 nice guy…1/4 adventurer…1/4 dependable…1/4 romantic …1/4 fun...1/4 passionate…1/4 …wait…too many 1/4’s… Ah well…let’s throw in a dose of wit…a dram of charm (maybe a few… ;-))…a sizeable smattering of intelligence…a helping of confidence… On the down side…I can’t cook (outside the bachelor staple of KD). Though I’d love to take a cooking class with you someday! I’m neat (not my office), put things away after myself… I even hang things up…but I’m house work “challenged”. I’m handy…can build, fix things reasonably well. Lemme see…what else can I confess… I love making you feel special. Love holding hands, cuddling, walking, talking…all the oft repeated clich's of the romantics can be found here. I’ll hold a door open for you. You’ll be able to take me home to meet Mom. I’ll connect well with the . Your friends just might approve. I love to tease…and flirt with you…and plan to even into our 90’s. I love just to be around you. Don’t drink ( “trying” to acquire the taste for red wine (maybe you can help me). Never smoked. Love a challenge. I know what I want and go after it. I can…procrastinate (can’t we all). I enjoy down time adventure time. I’m a night owl…but can be coerced out of bed early. Can’t ski or skate. Play competitive ball hockey with guys half my age. Coached baseball for years. And at the risk of sounding like a typical male…might as well get this out there…I am well versed in the art of love and passion. Ya…sounds like a typical male. It’s NOT the quantity (you can put away the “beat him off” stick (though if you flash me your flat sexy belly (I appreciate all a woman has to offer…but I’m a belly man…sorry if this may chase a bunch more wonderful ladies away…I is who I is…)…you may need it))…but in quality (I promise) …err…creativity. No…nothing way out there (I do have boundaries). I’m a true giver (though enjoy receiving). Just love to take you to that place you don’t wish to leave anytime soon. So this must be a healthy and adventurous part of you. And here...that should not be an issue. Ok…that’s out of the way. What am I looking for? All the cliche's; brains, beauty, sense of humour. But it's the connection...the...passion... To have that incredible spark...that ignition that sends our senses into overdrive. To have that union that exists on all levels...mental, physical, emotional...souls. Us against the world! I'll be your biggest supporter. I want...to dream...to plan...to achieve…together... What I enjoy...bonding... It doesn't matter how. Reading together. Cuddled up watching a mushy movie. Me making a nuisance of myself with you in the kitchen (hey I have to contribute somehow). Falling asleep together. Waking up together. Putting the to bed amid gails of laughter. A carnal embrace...or 2… Time with the ! A joint adventure! Conquering a fear…or 2…together. Spontaneity! Tickle fight. Massages. Running my fingers through your hair. A gentle touch as I walk by …

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'll have to think about this one...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage, Tickling if you're willing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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