I joined this site to explore my own sexuality and this site allows me to be up front without playing stupid games and also to meet like minded people. [COLOR red]Thus I am seeking a teacher - Someone to explore with and experiment and laugh. Looking to unleash my own sexual potential fully. Don't want a Master, I repeat seeking teacher not a master. I'm not a submissive, so those of you who are seeking a submissive will have to look elsewhere, not into S&M or rough stuff. [COLOR darkred]Much more interested in having unadulterated, undiluted passionate, sensual, mind-blowing encounters with a potential friend with benefits.[/COLOR] I'm a clean person with good hygiene and expect the same from any man that I encounter. I expect that man to be disease free (as I am). There has to be a mutual attraction and respect and a connection before I will consider taking things further. [COLOR darkred]I DO NOT LIKE ONE-NIGHT STANDS, WILL NOT INDULGE IN ONE,[/COLOR] regular, ongoing, mutually satisfying sexual contacts only. I'm just not that type of woman. [COLOR darkred]Besides that will defeat my objective in joining this site there is no exploration and no experimentation to be had in one night.[/COLOR] I'm a woman of substance, there is more to me than just someone to fuck with. I am intelligent, smart, sometimes cheeky most of the time funny and laid back.[COLOR darkblue][/COLOR] Must be fit with a great body and a wicked sense of humour. Its suppose to be fun also and I find self deprecating humour or smartass humour is a big turn on. I let you into a little secret, the biggest sex organ is not what is between your legs, but between your ears. LOL[/COLOR] [COLOR darkblue][/COLOR][COLOR darkred][/COLOR][B][/B][B][/B][B][/B][COLOR darkred][/COLOR][COLOR darkblue][/COLOR][B][/B]

My Ideal Person Someone to indulge my explorations. Someone creative and with lots of imagination. Someone with patience and a lot of wicked humour. I'm looking for a man, between the ages of 25-41, attractive, intelligent, fun, cheeky, a bit freaky, playful and willing to try new things. Knows how to treat a woman like me (if I'm in the mood for someone older or younger and find you attractive and in great physical condition, I will contact you). Not looking for a one night stand as that is just cold. Looking for occasional or regular depending on the guy.

Also you need to be a man who is discerning, discreet, and complication-free!! Discreet does not mean cheating on your spouse/girlfriend (I'm not a home wrecker), it just means the neighbours don't have to know what we do.LOL

Must be clean, free of STDs and use protection mandatory.

I do have a number of non-negotiables if you want to engage with me (not in any particular order):
•Completed profiles - if most of your profile says “Prefer Not to Say”, what is the point of trying to initiate contact with someone if you prefer not to say;
•Please send photo with face otherwise - NO RESPONSE and please do not send me dick photos. I expect you to have more to offer and be more than just a dick, if not, move along to another profile;
•Safe sex is a must that includes common sense approach to personal safety if we meet it will be in a public place (I have no intention of becoming another murder statistic), and in addition so is being: disease; drug; baggage; stalker; rude; and bullshit FREE!
•Do not initiate contact such as: “CAN I STICK MY FINGER IN YOUR PUSSY?”, “LET'S FUCK”, “HOW ABOUT A FUCK TONIGHT?” and so on, besides being disrespectful it lacks creativity, neither should you use a sentence structure that keeps me guessing as to what you really mean, it just doesn’t deserve a response other than to be trashed, so move on and let's not waste each other's time. Being on this site, does not equal being disrespectful or rude.
•Write me an honest, friendly note, tell me about yourself that is not in your profile, tell me about what you like about me, what you are offering beyond the obvious, and why you'd like to get together;
•If I feel at any point during our communications you are being disrespectful, you will be blocked. I do not tolerate abusive language/behavior from people I know, so I definitely won't take it from people who are trying to get to know me.
•Do not expect to “CLOSE THE DEAL” between my thighs the first time we meet because you paid for my meal, or the movie tickets or the theatre tickets, etc. Or use some weak ass excuses as to why I should fuck on the first night such as: “I am nice person”, “This is a sex site”. Does that means common sense goes out the window? THERE NEEDS TO BE SOME TYPE OF CONNECTION, SOME SPARK, SOME PULL THAT CAUSES THE JUICES TO FLOW AND THE DESIRE AND HUNGER TO RISE. I prefer to chat with someone before I agree to meet them. NSA does not mean anonymous, unemotional, and meaningless encounters. If this is a problem, move along;
•If we meet face to face after having positive interactions without meeting face to face it does not automatically mean first night sex at yours or my place. You might not find me as attractive as you thought or I might not find you as attractive as I thought.
•Do not send me emails that you I'll be in town on X date and would like to meet for a hot session. Because if you think I am the kind of woman who’ll be so accommodating in providing sex with a total stranger, move to another profile.
•Do not send me an email telling me how you have never fucked a black woman before but you would love to fuck me. It's an instant turn off as it implies that this must be number X of your 101 must do before I die list.

I have taken the time to carefully provide you with as clear as possible a picture of who I am and what I'm looking for. Please do not think, “OH, I CAN CHANGE HER MIND”. Sorry, not happening.

If some of you think after reading this profile that I am a black woman with attitude, then I have succeeded in getting rid of time wasters.

Yes by gosh this is long, but ask yourself would you prefer vague or specific?

For those who understands were I am coming from, and is like minded in their desire, who is interested in having a friend with benefits then do please write and I will answer back, you already have my attention.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Maxwell, Jill Scot, Gill Scot-Heron, Stevie Wonder, Cassandra
Wilson, Donny Hathaway, Terry Callier

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A movie theatre, Under a waterfall, A store dressing room, A hotel room

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