***************ABSOLUTLY NO SINGLE MEN************* I'm 40 currently 130 lbs a little extra padding, but not bad really, for my age, however I have started going back to the gym so getting better and better all the time. I'm a retail manager. My husband and I have been married and in the swingers lifestyle for almost 13 years. I love long walks, especially on the beach. I love a great kiss !!!!! Honestly if done right thats all the foreplay I need before I'm begging to be pleased. I also love a soft sensual touch of a woman. Woman are just so soft and sensual. I enjoy watching my husband please other woman, even those who dont wish to play sexually with me personally. Because trust me, he has enough stamina to please us both, however, if you are ever willing to try the otherside I'm great with first timers. I really dislike liars, or thiefs.. I'm the type who gives my trust upfront with my whole heart. I'm passionate about everything I do and with everyone I meet. I have a tendancy to talk tooooooo much or too loud :)) I also have what I call a throwup mouth, its basiclly: talking without thinking and it usually involves alot of TMI !!!! Sorry in advance :"> I'm not high maitenance, however I can take a bit of getting use to. The few close friends I have are there because they have learned to be patient with me on some days, and I have learned to be very susceptible to shutting up when told:-$ they are also quite aware of my quarkyness. As I said I do everything in my life in FULL FORCE and dont regret anything or anyone. I only look forward to the new and the exciting adventures my life seems to take on day after day.

My Ideal Person My Ideal woman would be my close friend and also be willing to share my bed at times with both my husband and I. Someone I can go shopping with, or go to a day spa and have our nails done, and full body massages. Then come back to my house for sensual, erotic pleasure and passionate sex with my husband and I.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Old Metallica, Scorpions, Sugarland, Black Cherry

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
One I've had for years but has been a bit tough to accomplish
is to make love outside during a heated rain/thunder/lightning
storm. Would have been a chance when I lived in Texas but
never found the right person. I also want to do the stranger/stranger fanatasy where
either my husband and I arrive at a bar seperately and we
spend the evening fliritng and trying to pick the other
up. Or even better we go out with another cpl and her, male
tries to p/u me and my husband tries to p/u her. I have also started a list of other fantasies so more to come.
Check back ;o)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, light spanking

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
OMG !!!! I'm totally in love with Bruce Willis.. Dont
ask me why? I'm also into, Mathew McCaughney, my bad
boy fantasy is Colin Ferrill. <br><br>
My ultimate female celebrity is Alyssa Milano of course
there are several others but she is my top.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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