I like to get to the point - life is too short for gray areas. I'm looking to meet real people in the real world. If you live within about miles of here then I think it is conceivable that I might make it that far to meet you. If you want to come here from further afield... that's up to you.I'm terminally honest, seriously cynical, deeply sceptical and emotionally very cautious indeed. The problem with having a heart of gold is that everyone wants to nick it! I'm very stubborn when I think I'm right, fortunately I'm quite bright so if i do think I'm right it's for a good reason.I spend most of my days working from home running a small on-line shop which, for the time being makes me living, of sorts. I spend my evenings talking to my son but my nights are free...I have lived in various parts of the world and traveled to and visited a LOT more, I speak excellent Spanish, mostly with a Mexican accent, I used to speak very good French, but I've forgotten most of it now. Fun? I would say so, I'm quite happy most of the time. I'm quite adventurous, there are whole bunch of things I'd like to do and I try to be open to new ideas. I am interested in most things, up to a point, but not celebrity culture, I just don't care what Posh and Becks, or anyone else I don't know, are doing. They are very welcome to get on with their lives but I don't need to know about it.