PROFILE UPDATE 12/4/05 ................................................ I am 5'11, 200 #s, boy next door type who has been on and off AFF in the past year. I am mostly just here to meet new friends. I don't get out of the house much, so always looking for friends to hang out with. I know this isn't just a friend only finder sort of site, but I am perfectly content with just new friends. I got wrapped up in the AFF drama in the past, and am determined not to let that happen again. So, I am back, in a way, to chat with my friends that I miss from the past, and make new ones along the way. I know only one out of every 100 guys on this site are normal, fun, non-psycho stalker guys. Count me as one of the "ones". As for my perality, I am really more on the shy side, EXCEPT when it comes to meeting friends. I LOVE to make people laugh, so friends with a sense of humor are a must. Now, with that being said, I guess you could say I am kinky buy shy since this isn't a Baptist fundamentalist site. So, if things get more intimate, what would you expect from me? I love to give oral sex, but am definitely straight. While I am not overly optimistic that any sort of committed relationship would develop from here, there is nothing wrong with filling in the gaps that are currently missing in my life. Would love to hear from you sometime, if nothing else, to have a new friend in town.

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who would enjoy spending time together, and whether or not in involves sex will depend if there is that sort of connection. Nothing wrong with sex rendez-vous, but I'm getting to the age where it would be nice to find someone to click with emotionally as well as physically. Ideally, I will find someone to click with who can keep up with my drive in the bedroom. However, not afraid to start as friends and build. I believe I provide a soft touch, but can be more forceful when the time calls for it. I am tested clean, and would expect the same from anyone I met. Hopefully, something catches your eye, and while personality is important in a partner, looks and attraction play a big part as well for both of us I'm sure. I love to make people laugh, so if nothing else, I can always be a good friend!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have a fantasy that has fantasy spin offs. Basically, it centers around something I love. I just love driving a woman wild with extended oral pleasure. I can only quote a friend who says my talent in this area is "beyond reasonable belief". Of course, by saying that, I probably sound like an arrogant asshole, and everyone is thinking to themselves "Yeah... RIGHT!" Anyhow, I am not overly experienced in giving oral sex, but I guess it's just one of those things that I really enjoy, so I've managed to find a way to do it well. But, back to my fantasy.... I've always had a fantasy of being fast asleep in my bed, when quietly, an attractive female is able to sneak into my house, strip off her clothes while I am asleep, and I start to awaken when she starts to grind her pussy lips over my mouth. Instinctively, I wake up in heaven to the sweetest taste in the world. I don't end up getting much sleep that night, but I do have a tired tongue in the morning.
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I guess the spinoffs from this fantasy revolve around the same oral fixation. I have always imagined having different women to lick all at the same time. I doubt this is as realistic of a fantasy since it isn't something I would probably enjoy in the context of a serious relationship. Plus, I don't want to be out there catching any diseases since I am tested clean. But, the thought of having the same wake up fantasy with two or more women to enjoy is even more stimulating. I try not to be selfish, but I don't even expect any return stimulation. Unlike women, it is much more difficult for us men to be multi-orgasmic, and if I am a situation with multiple women to pleasure, the last thing I want to do is put myself into a recovery time situation. I'm not sure how long I can go while just giving the pleasure, but I would also say it's an area that I would be interested in testing out.
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So, that's my long-winded spin on a current sexual fantasy. As my questions here indicate, I have had one FMF menage-a-trois, but it was more of a drunken, spur of the moment, wild hour than an experience I can look back on as an extended evening of pleasure. I'm not sure what is in my future, but I look forward to finding out.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I don't know if there really is any one celebrity that I would fantasize about having sex with. I enjoy the female figure, and women that are interested in sports are al the better. So, I guess I would more likely go for a sports star or sports reporter who is in great shape. Anna Kornikova, Leeann Tweeden, and even Suzy Kolber would all be of interest. I used to play club volleyball in college, so attractive, yet tall, college volleyball players can be a turn on as well. From their long, shapely legs to firm butt, they are a sight to see. Some of them are just scary brutish looking though, so it's not a sport wide fetish! LOL I am not attracted to any one body part specifically (i.e. hair, breasts, legs, ass, eyes, etc.), but I am attracted mostly to at least slimmer to athletic physiques for sexual attraction. Anyhow, that probably doesn't make me any different than women attracted to beefcake men, so no reasons to apologize for who I am attracted to.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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