I am a middle aged male in a long term relationship where the intimacy and romance has gone stale. I am secure, confidant and not desperate, I simply have a desire for some discrete excitement in my life. :)) I am imaginative being a musician who writes and records my own music and give me a guitar, microphone and the right forum I am away! I work in a highly stressful public area and I am looking for a diversion via way of cyber, text and the odd coffee/lunch date. I get to travel between New Plymouth and Wellington, and when away I like to check out live music, especially when in Wellington. I can spend hours just wandering Courtney Pl taking in the buskers and the live bands on offer. If you are available for the odd evening out enjoying some live music and the city scene all the better too. :D While I do not expect physical intimacy occasional personal contact is desirable as nothing beats shared time enjoying life. :-S

My Ideal Person Someone who can match my imagination, playfulness and libido, and is open to regularcyber/phone/text contact. If you have or will provide photo's then even better.

Remember I am not looking for physical intimacy, although I am aware that it could happen when least expected.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to list, other than myself (thought I ahte watching
my videoed performances

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Only one?????? <br><br> Well then it would have to be a hot lady coming up to me during
a set break, handing me her panties then taking my hand and
leading me to the back room where we have passionate sex
before I have to return to the stage for the next set.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Celebrities are overrated. Give me the real person.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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