I believe that building a strong relationship takes a combination of commitment, trust, communication, romance, and common interests. I am, however, quite open minded. Most of my friends would say I have an easy-going personality. I dislike the pub scene (too old :-). I prefer more intimate environs when getting to know someone I'm interested in. When I go out, it's about finding something new to do, and enjoying it. The philosophy I live by is if it gives you that adrenaline rush, in or out of bed, it was worthwhile. I get along best with people who can see my value and aren't afraid to let me know it. I am not a dancer but want to be, social dancer that is:-) I consider myself to be reasonably inteligent, I enjoy a wine in preferance to beer. Musically I like the four B's:- Beatles, Bach, Beethoven & the baroque style in general. I enjoy reading and wish I'd been more interested in it when it mattered. I'd rather watch a good comedy (movie) than a soap. Whilst on the subject of 'watching'; the ABC & SBS have my preferance over commercial television. This all makes me sound like a bit of a bore but I'm far from that, I enjoy a good laugh & I used to be a bit of a hippy. I look forward to travelling overseas each year for as long as physically able. When it comes to physical health, I exercise by walking, daily and would like my partners to be of about the same fitness level. I'm looking to meet a warm, friendly, happy, outgoing, uninhibitive and affectionate woman with a sense of humor. A mature Woman (rubenesque is OK ) who has not lost the spark, with, for and from adventurous sex. She should be proud of herself, not ashamed of her beautiful sexier maternal, fuller figure. I'm completely open to age, most people are surprised to know I'm 59 ergo. I don't look it. (Still there?) While I'm still open to real meetings, I'm a normal straight arrow but with a penchant for some new direction e.g. For the fun of it, I'm now looking for someone to begin an online sexuall relationship: for the experience. I think it would fun if not interesting. Sexually, I'm pretty wild, but only if the chemistry is right. I enjoy sex, believe it is an important part of any mature relationship. I'm not changing my life, I'm changing how I live it. I'm in the mood for a creative 'fuck buddy' to be part of it. Woops, yes that's what was said ;-) Sometimes a day would be more complete, if it was shared with a special friend, someone close. What's the word? 'of kindred spirit'. T'would be nice to be in a 'relationship' but an open one, I don't want to restrain a persons individuality. Woduya think?! Well IF you ARE STILL THERE and want to contact me please be discreet. I'll do the same for you. Cheers. Travel Goal; February off too Thailand/Cambodia for a month, if i find the transition accomodating I will stay longer. I'm going to go to (bucket list ) Portugal, Mexico, South America in general. I intend to go o'seas for 3mths out of each of my remaining years i.e. no family. Starting 2012 Thailand/Cambodia like? ;-) or dislike?:-( well i hope you're smiling either way CHEERS eyes; blue, height; 6', hair; salt/GREY & light brown build; slim/medium interests; exploring new areas, cooking, reading,dancing, crosswords, travel, wines, movies, attend cultral events exercise; daily walks EMAIL Adult FriendFinder SEX I enjoy sex, believe it is an important part of any mature relationship. I'm more interested in a longer-term OPEN relationship. I like my partners to participate actively in the bedroom. In the bedroom, I like to be experimental. Some of my favourite positions are...doggy, 69, he sitting in a chair.i.e. kitchen style chair, she facing on lap/cock I prefer one-on-one sex, but wouldn't mind doing it again with another couple in the room. ================================================= One-on-one sex is great but id like to find a lady who still wants to enjoy or try threesomes/swapping etc. but not mandatory I'm willing to try some light bondage or blindfolds and would like to find a lady who wants to at least try.