Three weeks ago, my wife came home from the neighbours party and announced that she was in love with another man...and all it took was a hug. Ha! I gotta learn that hug :) So, I'm a recently single dad of three. Being both Mom and Dad to these is a full time job that I have done with pleasure for a many years while my wife was bed riddon with depression. she would come out of it from time to time and we were happy and active but it only ever lasted a few days then she was back to the bed for months at a time. Telling me she is in love with a guy she dated when she was 12 has a ring of finality to it since I overlooked her cheating with another guy a few years back and held on but she never said she loved him, just used him to try and figure out what was wrong with her sexually. I gotta take some me time. And I love spending my me time with my arms around a woman. I got full control of my junk :) that's right, I tell HIM what to do and when. My wife had intimacy issues so I had to learn to go without sexual contact for weeks at a time. :) don't get me wrong, it all works. I do love sex and it takes me a lot longer than it used to because I have control. I'm missing adult companionship, not a shoulder or a place to stay, just a girlfriend to run her fingers through my hair and call me pirddy (SnickerSnicker) :) I remained faithful to her for 19 years. I don't even remeber what another woman feels like so I thought I'd try this nsa thing. I loved being married, the home feeling when I walk through the door, snuggling up to my one hunny for a movie or at bed time. Family camping trips and sneakin out together after the are asleep. I am affectionate even in public(keep it clean...ish). I want somebody who wants the same. I'm not the jealous type believing that what happens happens. Looking forward to reading your emails!