Over the past year and a half I have lost 90 lbs. This has not only transformed me physically, but made me want more from life. I am not satisfied to drift through life anymore. I have been existing, I want to live. I try to find the best in people, but I am a realist. I have seen a lot of the worst humanity has to offer. It has made me more committed to peral freedom and justice. I enjoy movies, and have a extensive DVD collection. I also enjoy different types of music, people have referred to my CD collection as very eclectic. I am taking dancing less and would like to practice with someone. As far as sex is concerned, I consider myself an excellent lover. Because of my recent weight loss, I have unbelievable stamina. I can go on the treadmill now for more then an hour and not get tired. Now I am trying to test my physical limits in every way. I always like to learn more about sex and women’s bodies. One of my favorite type of “porn” are instructional videos. I love kissing. Women have told me I am a great kisser. Maybe its because I enjoy it so much. There is something about softly touching a woman lips with mine, that truly turns me on like nothing else. Touching, stroking and being playful are very important to me. A woman once told me told me that I made her “melt.” That was the greatest complement she could have given me. Don't let all of the sex talk scare you off if you are looking for a "just a friend." I am looking for friends as well as sex.

My Ideal Person I am looking for friends, hopefully with benefits.

I will not turn down a serious relationship with the right woman. But she has to be someone extraordinary. She enjoys life and helping people. She has to be independent, thoughtful, kind and caring. She has to be strong enough to not need anyone, but at the same time chooses to be with me.

No drama or games.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Manual Stimulation

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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