Married guy looking for the affection and intimacy that's gone from my life. If you're one of those people who doesn't like that, then move along. Seriously, stop reading and look at someone else. For those of you still reading, I assume that you are OK with my situation. I am not looking to change things at home. I am looking for an affectionate loving per who can meet some of those needs for me. In return I promise to help you meet some of your needs. I am a normal, well-adjusted guy who is clean, respectable, and D/D free. What I really want is someone who I can meet on a semi-regular basis for dinner, and then some private time where we can explore our connection further. I have been told by ladies on here that I am different than most of the guys who are looking for a quick roll in the hay. I take that as a compliment. [B]I am the real deal. I am not one of these horn-guys that is on here spamming every lady with penis pics and making lewd comments about photos.[/B] You will not find penis pics in my profile because I find it too forward. But I will share one privately if asked. ;-) [B]And as far as pics go, please include one in your email, especially if there aren't any on your profile.[/B] Under the right circumstances, I might consider meeting a couple, but please understand that I am [B]not [/B]bisexual, and will not be interested in playing with the man at all. If you are a couple who is looking for another guy for your lady to play with, I may be interested. [B]What I am NOT looking for: [COLOR firebrick]GUYS.[/COLOR][/B] Listen, my profile says that I am straight. Please respect it. The only dick I want in my life is the one that I was born with. Got it? Please don't waste my time and yours... You will not get a response from me.

My Ideal Person Interested in: A married (or attached) white woman who lives within 50 miles of me for a semi-LTR arrangement where we can meet occasionally for drinks, dinner and (much) more.

Looking for a like-minded married lady with a similar situation. Someone who lives 50 miles or less from me or an area where I have declared in my profile that I travel to would be ideal. We ARE supposed to meet, right?

Why married, you ask? Because I am looking for someone who understands and respects that we will need to be discreet. I find that the like minded married ladies understand this better than the single ones.

I am a sucker for redheads, and I like long hair. But if you lack either one (or both) of these properties, it's OK. I keep myself fit, and height / weight proportional, and I am looking for that in you as well. If you are a BBW, I probably won't be interested, sorry...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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