Hi there ! Have been single for a while now, after a long term relationship, and am looking for new people to meet. I like to see myself as a pretty straight forward guy, with a good sense of humour, and a lifely spirit, and I think that the people who know me would subscribe that. My main hobbies are cooking, sports, music, films and photography. I work in what you might callihealthcare, trying to help addicts and alcoholics to get clean or sober, and to be able to stay that way. For a large part of my life I've lived on what you might call 'the wild side' myself, which makes me perfect for the job, but I've had more than enough of all of that, so what I'm looking for today is someone who share my pleasant, healthy, enjoyable life with me. I am therefore not interested in people who dare in to pulling all-nighters and who are in to substance-abuse, so if that is your game'please do not react. What I have done for the last couple of years is embraceing what you might call a spiritual lifestyle , which, to me, means I try to be the best person I can, one day at a time. I find this way of living serves me a whole lot better than beeing a selfseeking thrillseeker, and what I'm definitely looking for in a relationshio now is love, honesty, and intimacy. I must say this does not mean that I've suddenly become some of saint, ofcourse. To my own great surprise I turned out to be a real human beeing, with pleasant and less pleasant trades, which is something like my worse puberty nightmare coming true, but guess what ? I'm ok with that today, and it gives me a wonderful sense of serenity and security to not have to pretend I'm something I'm not anymore it ! This, ofcourse, also means that I'm rarely to be found in pubs or discothecs anymore, so if that's what you're interested in, I'm not the man you're looking for. A nice dinner, a good film or show, and a concert or museum of and on : anytime, but staying in and snugging up on the couch with some nice snacks and a good film is what I probably like to do most nowadays. For the rest I consider myself to be sexual as well as romantic, and I like to enjoy live by looking at it fromthe bright side where I can. Therefor I like to surround myself with positive and constructive people, that take care of themselves in a healthy manner, and have the ability not to take themselves too seriousely all of the time. Well, that's all I think might be inportant to put down here in this profile, but if you're interested in getting to know more about me, you are very welcome to respond ! Will add, though : love people with a good sense of humour, but ONLY SERIOUS REACTIONS, please. H.

My Ideal Person Honest, without the urge to tear people apart, loyal, without beeing possesive, adventurous, with a healthy sense of responsibility, romantic, but sexual, somewhat attractive, without to much of an ego, and definitely : a good sense of humour !