I am a 41 yo single black woman living in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Two adult . Drama free and self sufficient. I am plus size (18-20). I'm looking for a relationship I don't have to define, but it still feels good. I get along best with people who just want to keep things light and have a good time. I've reached the point where it's time to get past my shy nature and meet someone new. For me a perfect Friday night is a video, a big screen TV and dinner delivered or a cup of coffee and good conversation at the local bookstore. I'm not changing my life, but I want to explore a few new options and see how it works out.