I'm not really here looking for a meaningful relationship (although not opposed if it were to happen...but then how do you explain to family/friends how you met...just leave it at "online" maybe!) I'm also not looking for nor interested in being another notch on the bedpost. I believe variety is the key to very satisfying intimate relationships. I enjoy quiet evenings at home by the fire or a rainy night in the hot tub; the intensity/thrill of an encounter in a place you shouldn't be having one, even if it is as quick as a deep passionate kiss and a look that says "I can't wait"; a sunny afternoon and a secluded cove on the boat at the lake; the spontaneous passion of sneaking off out of view while on a hike/mtn bike ride through the hills.

My Ideal Person Hmmmm....how about a hard-bodied, bisexual, nymphomaniac, exhibitionist, card carrying republican with a graduate degree and a six-figure income...oh yeah, and little or no gag reflex.

Okay, I'm just kidding. (Although if you check all of those boxes, *please* e-mail me!)

Mutual physical attraction is a must. If you are seeking a "discrete relationship" to keep your children from knowing more than they should about your adult life, I'm okay with that; to keep your friends/neighbors from knowing, that's probably okay; to keep your spouse in the dark, completely unacceptable, please look elsewhere.

I love intensity and passion, the ability to communicate "I want you" with just a look and a touch. I love someone who is comfortable/secure enough to be out together and say "Hey, look at that girl, she has an incredible body" knowing that seeing another beautiful woman intensifies desires, but doesn't threaten her position. Someone who is independent enough not to need me, but that doesn't stop her from wanting me.

Oh, and she also gets bonus points for knowing what a "PZ" party is!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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