[COLOR purple]There was no rea really to change the profile I had written at the end of the spring of ’06 when I got in this site, everything that was in there is still valid. That is for those who had seen it and may remember it...The only rea for updating is that in the meantime I realized some things and first of all that things in here don’t work the way they should (if they ever do...). To put it simply after all this time I could very well add to my title the words «...but as for the latter – meaning the sex obsessed – it is doubtful if even hell is for them»! It seems that being totally honest and true about who you are and what you are looking for and showing too much respect for the others in here can lead to serious misunderstandings, if not for some people to think that you are a jerk, maybe plainly stupid too. So I just thought...no more Mr Nice Guy! Let’s cut the bullshit and cut straight to the chase! That doesn’t mean of course that I intend to start being rude to people or acting like a savage macho pig, that simply isn’t me. I just decided that too much kindness not only is not needed but it can be bad for myself too, some take it as some kind of weakness. Since it isn’t appreciated by many let’s just say things the way they are and call them with their real names. So here are the new rules of the game... First of all I’m now here only for blogging and for the few good friends I made again through blogging, that alone is enough I think to show up to which point I have given up hope that anything interesting – let alone of any good...- might come out of this. But for those still interested and really wanting to know more here you go: Every last peral detail underneath is more than true, be sure about it if you are in any doubt. As for the rest I’m pretty much easy going as long as somebody doesn’t think that this means that I don’t have opinions of my own, very independent, least demanding, not at all possessive, totally respectful of the other’s thoughts and opinions and I consider myself really open minded on many levels and regarding many things. I think that it is fair to ask for the same in return...Intelligence, humour, positive thinking, mutual respect (repeating it because it is very important for me) and sensuality come very, very high on my list. I like having a laugh and some fun, just like everybody else. And fun for me can be found in really simple things if you are with the right people, going out for a drink, listening to some good music (the thing that I don’t just adore, it’s something like the air I breathe for me) at a nice place or even at home. I think of sex as part of the fun too, it should be fun before anything else because otherwise it is not really worth, it is one of the best and most tasty spices of life. But here I have to say that definitely I DON’T promise to rock anybody’s world! Never said, thought or even imagined that I’m an…earthquake! If you are looking for one...good luck with the next profile! On the other hand I have to say too that I like to think a lot and about a lot of things and I like too to get to the bottom of things and not staying on the surface. That means that I try to understand as better as I can situations, people and their motivations...If this seems too heavy and weird for you then again...good luck with the next profile! That’s about it and if you want more info you can just do the obvious thing, ask for it![/COLOR]

My Ideal Person I already stated above that I’m here now mainly for blogging, that is how much I believe that anything else might happen. But of course I’m still interested in sex, haven’t lost my appetite for it (on the contrary!) and I’m open to anything interesting that it might come along. In case you are interested too let’s get some things straight...For starters, although I checked the option «discreet relationship» for convenience reasons, I don’t really mean it and much more so I’m not looking for it. That almost happened to me once in here that is one time more than it is reasonable to happen. Let’s just leave emotions out of it, OK? They are very difficult to find (and even more difficult to handle) in real life, not in site like this, there is no need to make things more complicated for no reason. So if you are looking for the true love of your life...not saying it again, next profile. But it’s a totally different thing if the reason that you are looking for something else, something extra is because you somehow feel a bit lonely, that would make much more than sense. Otherwise why to waste your time in here and not being with those that they could fill that void in your life? So, if you also want good, adult, discreet sensual and sexual fun, together with friendship, understanding and absolute respect – those go without saying –, for some time or even a bit more long term, then read on...
Except the one I just mentioned I’m game and pretty much for anything. Having said that cybersex may be a good – not necessary though – starting point sometimes but...in no way the finishing line! What I’m looking for then?
1. BE REAL. I’m sick and tired of all the falseness in here...Even if some parts of your profile aren’t true (for whatever reasons you may have) I expect to learn the truth regarding them if we get past an initial contact. Truth never harmed anybody, there is no reason to hide from it and I don’t see why anybody should be afraid of it...I consider that so important that I really could write «be real» another 3 or 4 times and leave it at that. But I think that you get the picture...
2. BE TRUE TO YOURSELF. Spare a moment or two to think who you are, what your needs and desires are and why you are in this site. It will save valuable time for you and others. And maybe not only...
3. BE STRAIGHT TO THE OTHER. Just say, from the very beginning if possible, what are you looking for, what you wish for and what you expect. What you want and what you can give, no less but no more in both cases...
If you are really OK with all three of the above then I’m really asking for very few things. As much as I adore the female body, its feel, touch and smell, I really couldn’t care less for any pussy and tits photos (as I believe that no woman shouldn’t be particularly interested in a cock photo but that’s another and too long story). I’m really not impressed, wank material can be found very easily elsewhere, I think all of us are not here for this reason. And I also think that all body parts, bodies themselves, are better to be discovered in person and not through photos...I’d much rather you to impress me with other things, your mind let’s say, your imagination (let’s see, could it be as wild as mine?), some of your fantasies that you haven’t fulfilled till now. Thrill me, excite me, surprise me!! Or «Hold Me, Thrill Me, Kiss Me, Kill Me», like U2 put it once in a song (OK, better to avoid the last part, lol!). Can you do just that? If you can, trust me on this, I can do it much, much more for you!
Because mind knows no borders...Mind games are good, I enjoy it more and more and I’m very good at them. But not mindfucks, I hate them and I’m as good in getting out of them by all means necessary. So don’t you get any ideas about mindfucking me because...your loss, not mine! Friendly advice...But as for mind games I’m more than up for them. Any kind of games for that matter...And although I still do believe that the best things happen between a man and a woman when they are alone, those that are the wildest and the most unforgettable, if you think that there are other ways that are as good I’ll be more than happy to see you prove that to me! Because as time goes by we learn more things, we are adapting better to new experiences and we are more able and willing to try new ones, this is what evolution is all about...Only bimbos, bed athletes who see sex as a race in which they have to surpass their records and professionals of any kind better stay away, for the good of both me and you. Yours more than mine, believe me...
One last thing, most people who are also blogging in here use to finish their profiles with the line «if you want to know more visit my blog». I’ll just say that without telling you that you shouldn’t visit it – it is there to be read after all – it would be good to remember that although of course they belong to the same person this profile and my blog could very well be of two different people. Whatever I write in my posts, be it personal and somewhat autobiographical, fictional or somewhere in between it is just an expression of myself and it is there for some people that they care to read, it is written for that purpose only and by no means as a way of attracting people, sexually or otherwise...But if you can understand the difference and, even more, you are able to make the connection between the two – because there is one of course, it is just that it is very difficult for somebody to tell it...-...what can I say, that would make a pleasant surprise wonderful! Although I do think that this is almost impossible...

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
There are so many...And it changes every time, depending
on my partner.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No. And why to do that? Has anyone of them discovered a position
that there isn't in the Kama Sutra?

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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