I'm in a long-term, open, committed relationship. I'm not cheating and you shouldn't be either. I would prefer an ongoing friends-with-benefits arrangement, but travel hookups can be fun as well. I'm generally available some evenings and occasionally on a weekend day, but won't be able to host. Everyone who has met me says that I am a nice surprise - so take their word for it ;)

My Ideal Person Looking to meet sensible people/person who are/is looking for fun, in a safe, honest and ongoing situation as possible. Have questions? Please ask.
When it comes to guys - especially when I'm traveling... I don't want hours of making out, going down on me and pillow talk. I'm real and I do meet people - please be the same. Please don't go on and on about your diet and gym schedule - I'm proud of you but it's not turning me on.

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